tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post3535686910141404180..comments2024-03-28T01:29:54.776-07:00Comments on The Rules Revisited: How to Deal with Men Who Have Bad "Game"Andrewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-41393082502569158922021-03-31T15:56:06.786-07:002021-03-31T15:56:06.786-07:00, I just have to share my testimony on this Forum...., I just have to share my testimony on this Forum.. The feeling of being loved takes away so much burden from our shoulders. I had all this but I made a big mistake when I cheated on my wife with another woman and my wife left me for over 4 months after she found out.. I was lonely, sad and devastated. Luckily I was directed to a very powerful spell caster Dr Emu who helped me cast a spell of reconciliation on our Relationship and he brought back my wife and now she loves me far more than ever.. I'm so happy with life now. Thank you so much Dr Emu, kindly Contact Dr Emu Today and get any kind of help you want.. Via Email emutemple@gmail.com or Call/WhatsApp cell number +2347012841542 Website (https://emutemple.wordpress.com/)Jason Bennetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16896927184869020575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-28113048614943656842015-08-23T06:46:05.465-07:002015-08-23T06:46:05.465-07:00Well said, pluscrimethink, I could not have said i...Well said, pluscrimethink, I could not have said it better myself. No matter how much you like the guy, this is just not attractive. Studinenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08000913651941986572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-31682135861087136032015-07-17T09:20:42.073-07:002015-07-17T09:20:42.073-07:00I sometimes say, "Does the name Neil Strauss ...I sometimes say, "Does the name Neil Strauss mean anything to you?" and enjoy watching the horror and curiosity of how I "know" wash over their faces. Being "caught" either freaks them out and they leave it they are intrigued and loosen up because they are disarmed and can be themselves knowing it's not gonna work with this girl ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-83422533209477096482014-05-17T10:23:24.551-07:002014-05-17T10:23:24.551-07:00Agreed. I've been involved with many people, s...Agreed. I've been involved with many people, some over many years, and those I cared about I never ONCE felt the need to treat them in any way other than with kindness and playfulness - never negatively or sarcastically. That kind of energy just seems to ruin everything it touches.<br /><br />Even growing up, it felt wrong to treat someone shabbily, and the few times I did, I felt like a total shitheel afterward.Edward Martin IIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06986758729731688465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-61218971394596978782014-01-25T20:36:15.450-08:002014-01-25T20:36:15.450-08:00This labeling in the turtles are usually separated...This labeling in the turtles are usually separated as per the sex. Several <a href="http://www.petnamesforgirls.com/" rel="nofollow">Pet names for girls</a> are usually designed for man turtles although several are usually most suitable option designed for feminine turtles.<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16282007724498433204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-69460538334254547852013-07-18T16:07:03.661-07:002013-07-18T16:07:03.661-07:00if you girls know for sure you are being gamed, th...if you girls know for sure you are being gamed, then i think you should confront the guy that is doing it... if they are you will know for sure, as well as if he isn't... women also have some "game" and most of the times it is easy to tell ;)Tiagohttp://facebook.com/tiagocupidoluisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-46559570610429046182013-07-12T02:00:04.602-07:002013-07-12T02:00:04.602-07:00"Game" is so dumb. I can't -stand- t..."Game" is so dumb. I can't -stand- those kinds of comments from insecure guys, and backhanded compliments.are the worst! Playful banter and some sarcastic teasing is always fun, but this new 'fad' usually takes and twists it overboard into assholery. It's more about the damaged ego and getting what he wants than actually liking the girl as a person and having the confidence to approach authentically (whether he realizes or not- and usually they just want to get in your pants anyway).This tactic works best with equally insecure women who seek validation from men. <br /><br />Any guy who actually prides himself in being a jerk is totally off my radar. <br /><br />Why do some people think it's so admirable to be blatantly rude to others? It demonstrates a false superiority. I now see it as immature and unattractive. More like inferiority... The bigger question is how so many girls fall for it. Well I guess I know, I just wish more knew themselves enough to avoid accepting advances from somebody below their true standards.<br /><br />Again, nice blog. Very insightful and analytic thoughts. :) Though I don't totally agree with everything, it's appreciated. Interesting posts.pluscrimethinknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-25350364616690664992013-06-11T05:01:35.264-07:002013-06-11T05:01:35.264-07:00I'd be interested to know, from the guy's ...I'd be interested to know, from the guy's point of view, how does he want/expect a girl to react to these kind of statements/ questions?Jnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-55323270301998590352013-05-10T04:40:00.460-07:002013-05-10T04:40:00.460-07:00If a guy thinks you are out of his league, what is...If a guy thinks you are out of his league, what is the best way to reassure him? Other than to agree to dates and so on - if he needs more encouragement. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-44094492164484316672013-01-07T07:53:56.835-08:002013-01-07T07:53:56.835-08:00Good point... I think "babe" is usually ...Good point... I think "babe" is usually appropriate, though some guys won't like it - some guys don't like being given pet names at all. You will have to feel out the specifics for yourself. You could just ask him.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-64366682520160665022013-01-07T06:09:14.617-08:002013-01-07T06:09:14.617-08:00That post never really addressed this question as ...That post never really addressed this question as far as an appropriate "pet name" for a man you are in the early stages of dating. <br /><br />I was out with a guy on Friday who I wanted to call "cute" so bad, but thought of this and couldn't do it... <br /><br />Any suggestions are welcomeTnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-57940687778136403282012-12-29T02:09:05.715-08:002012-12-29T02:09:05.715-08:00Do 1000 approaches - nervousness disappears.Do 1000 approaches - nervousness disappears.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-20830297432282696372012-11-20T14:47:54.740-08:002012-11-20T14:47:54.740-08:00Yes this is true.Yes this is true.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-34663385654109938072012-11-20T14:17:53.535-08:002012-11-20T14:17:53.535-08:00I see you use "confident" as an adjectiv...I see you use "confident" as an adjective to describe a person as a whole, but is it normal for men to confident in some aspects but not in others? As in he can be very successful and a real ball-buster at work, socially extroverted, but not super confident with women? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-72192592964441073642012-05-17T09:23:16.799-07:002012-05-17T09:23:16.799-07:00I think I'll make this one into a post. Look f...I think I'll make this one into a post. Look for it soon.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-76086058961518269552012-05-17T04:23:24.057-07:002012-05-17T04:23:24.057-07:00Do men hate being called 'cute'? Or 's...Do men hate being called 'cute'? Or 'sweetie'?<br />When I'm dating a guy, he usually calls me "sweetie", "baby", "darling" or "love". What is the male equivalent? I can't bring myself to say "handsome".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-30044502034337657932012-04-30T03:20:52.671-07:002012-04-30T03:20:52.671-07:00Whether they are being honest or trying to make yo...Whether they are being honest or trying to make you feel bad is impossible for me to say without knowing you (or them), but in general I'd be careful about asking guys who like you for advice about other guys. Aside from the fact that you might hurt them by being so up-front about liking other men, they will struggle to be honest with you due to their own interest.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-73530163759244020162012-04-29T05:30:01.711-07:002012-04-29T05:30:01.711-07:00Just one general question - I don't have too m...Just one general question - I don't have too many male friends. I'm pretty much a girly girl and the male friends I have in my life are either guys who I suspect are interested but have never made an actual move, some I have kept at a comfortable distance, one who's dated a close friend. A couple of them are dating girls though.<br /><br />Is it worth it to ever ask them of advice in matters with men? There are a couple I sometimes chat with online since they live other places and they ask how things are going. But I feel like they are always extremely cynical and negative. Do I interpret this a 'brutal honesty' or are they just really trying to make me feel bad?<br />I'm an attractive girl btw.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-55059866977951999852012-04-18T03:14:11.578-07:002012-04-18T03:14:11.578-07:00a really bad onea really bad oneAndrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-49996915924256022452012-04-17T17:14:32.122-07:002012-04-17T17:14:32.122-07:00Good topic!
Andrew, your suggested response is to...Good topic!<br /><br />Andrew, your suggested response is totally in line with Louis & Copeland's "How to Succeed With Men"'s suggestions for dealing with the goofy mistakes guys will inevitably make when trying to flirt - give him a loss for the unwanted behaviour/line but immediately follow it up with a win so he knows he can still win you with some course corrections :)<br /><br />CassandraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-53903460534067616892012-04-17T14:51:36.668-07:002012-04-17T14:51:36.668-07:00What do you make of a guy telling you are angry an...What do you make of a guy telling you are angry and/or evil? What kind of neg is that?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-87815976906495061842012-04-17T12:52:16.534-07:002012-04-17T12:52:16.534-07:00Great post! This is so true...happens all the time...Great post! This is so true...happens all the time. Personally, something I like to do when someone is saying inappropriate/insulting stuff: I tilt my head and say, "Charming." Then I straighten my head and look them in the eyes and say, "It's been such a pleasure talking to you. Enjoy the rest of your evening." And I walk away before they have a chance to respond. The best way to deliver this line....channel your inner Judi Dench (if you have a Brit sensibility) or your inner Southern Belle (with that sweet, butter-wouldnt-melt look)...the type of girl who smiles and says, "Isnt that just a perfectly lovely dress you're wearing." Which is Southern code for "that's the ugliest dress I've ever seen. What's wrong with you?"<br /><br />As Andrew said, if they get enough polite walk-aways...they will realize they need to tweak their tactics. And I dont believe in a) rewarding bad behavior or b) tolerating rudeness just because the person is a nervous wreck. I may feel compassion but I'm not putting myself in the line of fire.Jennoreply@blogger.com