tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post4252728114717926544..comments2024-03-28T01:29:54.776-07:00Comments on The Rules Revisited: How to Get "The Right Kind of Attention"Andrewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-49030450926600122812021-08-04T22:36:31.684-07:002021-08-04T22:36:31.684-07:00I started on COPD Herbal treatment from Ultimate L...I started on COPD Herbal treatment from Ultimate Life Clinic, the treatment worked incredibly for my lungs condition. I used the herbal treatment for almost 4 months, it reversed my COPD. My severe shortness of breath, dry cough, chest tightness gradually disappeared. Reach Ultimate Life Clinic via their WEBSITE www.ultimatelifeclinic.com . I can breath much better and It feels comfortable!Florencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02006372372558626429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-20232199655776143442021-03-31T15:50:42.417-07:002021-03-31T15:50:42.417-07:00, I just have to share my testimony on this Forum...., I just have to share my testimony on this Forum.. The feeling of being loved takes away so much burden from our shoulders. I had all this but I made a big mistake when I cheated on my wife with another woman and my wife left me for over 4 months after she found out.. I was lonely, sad and devastated. Luckily I was directed to a very powerful spell caster Dr Emu who helped me cast a spell of reconciliation on our Relationship and he brought back my wife and now she loves me far more than ever.. I'm so happy with life now. Thank you so much Dr Emu, kindly Contact Dr Emu Today and get any kind of help you want.. Via Email emutemple@gmail.com or Call/WhatsApp cell number +2347012841542 Website (https://emutemple.wordpress.com/)Jason Bennetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16896927184869020575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-6679282253567894022016-02-28T10:38:48.822-08:002016-02-28T10:38:48.822-08:00There is not only one type of masculinity and femi...There is not only one type of masculinity and femininity. I like an ounce of mystery in women.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-21043896360506311172015-08-28T06:25:40.483-07:002015-08-28T06:25:40.483-07:00Don't you think that people should be given th...Don't you think that people should be given the second chance? Did you give up on her because you came across such behaviour before? <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-9990885890080637052015-05-28T22:48:35.125-07:002015-05-28T22:48:35.125-07:00Yeah they rule of at least 1 mistake.... I meant m...Yeah they rule of at least 1 mistake.... I meant mystery :)LeOnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-78712090635439644272015-05-28T22:46:46.686-07:002015-05-28T22:46:46.686-07:00Receptive, open, radiant and cheerful female that ...Receptive, open, radiant and cheerful female that is dressed "slutty" AND without a pinch of mistery as in let it all hang out? Or how :)LeOnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-80242178532956936482014-12-15T14:37:47.184-08:002014-12-15T14:37:47.184-08:00Well, i think it's better to look sexy and mod...Well, i think it's better to look sexy and modest, and seduce guys with your femininity. When you dress slutty, you're showing too much, so guys won't make much effort. But if you dress modestly, but sexy, guys will fancy you dressing slutty and will try harder. That girl is right, she's definetely a girl with class. You have to combine things right, combine something sexy with something modest. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03795378855562047416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-14129945645448560832014-04-07T20:45:19.651-07:002014-04-07T20:45:19.651-07:00hello first I'd like to say I have become a se...hello first I'd like to say I have become a serious observer of your blog and the ideas that you put forth.my lifelong passion has to be understanding the dynamics between the sexes.I have come to a few hypothesis of my own and enjoy reading your thoughts.I am considered a very sensual woman in my early forties and have only just begun to understand the power that women hold and the basic biology / cultural factors that lead 2 wards different outcomes. Reading this text I completely identify with the woman's comments. As men are visually stimulated it is also imperative that you do not over stimulate their ability to understand the social contract you are creating with them. I have stones that if you are going to highlight an asset do it not modestly but simply. If you are highlighting your breasts then where a long skirt or pants. if you are tantalizing a man with your legs then don't overcomplicate his mind by showing too much cleavage. this creates an opportunity for the male to appreciate your body but focus on your eyes and face and if you could hope for your intelligence and humor. Having too many points of reference visually speaking causes a Man 2 over stimulate and thus lock up verbally.DianBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05622729273686508912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-55101795177121451302013-07-29T21:16:35.596-07:002013-07-29T21:16:35.596-07:00I completely agree with what the woman in the post...I completely agree with what the woman in the post said. I have a great body but am not out for casual sex, looking for a good man & a good relationship. I do not want the attention from manwhores that short skirt & low cut top will bring. So I go more conservative on the top but wear a very form-fitting short skirt & high heels, even to work. So I always look professional and classy while looking feminine and sexy. And it seems to work, judging by the caliber of men that approach me. And by how they approach me. They seem to know I'm not the casual sex type and they like that. Maybe it's my demeanor too. After a couple dates with a man and I've decided I want to explore where this is going, I'll go for the tight top. And all hell breaks loose :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-63969077111420371462013-07-22T05:42:06.029-07:002013-07-22T05:42:06.029-07:00Is going braless considered more 'provocative&...Is going braless considered more 'provocative' than showing a cleavage? I often feel that when I wear no bra (in this hot summer weather), it gets more attention from men than simply wearing something low cut with a bra. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-72482535184531244072012-12-07T08:49:04.145-08:002012-12-07T08:49:04.145-08:00I did, after a couple tries.
I actually follow th...I did, after a couple tries.<br /><br />I actually follow that rule frequently. Last weekend I approached a girl who was initially interested, but then must have changed her mind and started being cold. I said excuse me and left with my friend. Later she showed up at another bar we were at and came over to me at the bar. She made it clear with her body language that she wanted me to talk to her again. Even though she was cute and I wanted to talk to her again, I didn't. She missed her chance.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-53811841014834229002012-12-07T08:17:40.199-08:002012-12-07T08:17:40.199-08:00" The girl won't return my calls either....." The girl won't return my calls either... "<br /><br />I know this is an old post... But why not take your own advice and "cut her off"? Tnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-44261932904970800732012-11-24T03:53:27.308-08:002012-11-24T03:53:27.308-08:00I'm 37 now, and wouldn't dream of dressing...I'm 37 now, and wouldn't dream of dressing sluttily (but a bit of sexy, yes) but I distinctly remember when I used to go out in my early 20's and had a figure to die for that if I wore things too revealing (say a really short and right dress) I would feel self conscious and well, slutty. I think men would pick up on this vibe. If I went out in jeans and felt comfortable I would be fighting them off all night. <br /><br />I'm in Australia and my brother has recently returned to our hometown after 2 years abroad. He mentioned to me (something I thought was only my observation) that all the girls here go out looking exactly the same. They all wear the same generic short, tight revealing dress. Spray tanned within an inch of their life. He said they all look like a bunch of sluts and while you can't help but look its actually a turn off on other levels. He said the women he met in Toronto dressed with more individuality and class and this tended to reflect on them as people as well. I think our grandfathers had it right - its always more sexy to leave something to the imagination!!<br /><br />I think there is so much more to this whole picture - in that how you FEEL has a significant effect on your attractiveness. We all can think of a woman we have known at one time or another who was not conventionally pretty but had a certain magnetism that had men lining up around the blockAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-18021962209192379682012-09-23T04:41:56.801-07:002012-09-23T04:41:56.801-07:00I dress for my body type and I like wearing form-f...I dress for my body type and I like wearing form-fitting dresses and short shorts but I'm very aware of how I want to look if I want to go outside. I never wear anything that shows too much skin because I would feel so self-conscious. I get hit on all the time by guys even when I'm wearing something very conservative and covered up so I'm not sure it's the revealing clothing that attracts attention. Fashion Cappuccinohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02632387233768286769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-7638627033314545442012-08-27T10:20:34.161-07:002012-08-27T10:20:34.161-07:00So should they tone the sexy down once they're...So should they tone the sexy down once they're taken or would most guys be alright being the ice-t to her coco.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-46153710542013616772012-08-27T03:19:38.736-07:002012-08-27T03:19:38.736-07:00Dressing slutty takes balls. You can feel the sarc...Dressing slutty takes balls. You can feel the sarcasm and even hostility from other women and then the men too, might see you as try-hard. So I don't do it, unless I know what (who) I want and know what he likes. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-41818813928072159252012-08-19T22:25:26.189-07:002012-08-19T22:25:26.189-07:00In my experience this is true, though I have found...In my experience this is true, though I have found that I can get away with dressing more on the slutty side provided I do not drink too much, do not flirt with every guy who walks by, and engage in meaningful conversation with the men (and women!) I meet.<br /><br />I should add that on the occasions when I have acted like a slut, my BEHAVIOR left far more of an impression than the clothes I was wearing or had worn in the past. I quickly learned in college that in terms of meeting men and leaving a good impression (at parties and similar events), my best bet is always to dress as sexy as possible and behave as ladylike as possible. Any other permutation of behavior and clothing just does not yield desired results (aka the right kind of attention).MWnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-63370843811015621212012-08-19T21:55:22.818-07:002012-08-19T21:55:22.818-07:00Yes. Though the girls I really like in the first p...Yes. Though the girls I really like in the first place don't need to use them because I am the one that wants attention from them, not vice-versa.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-16303575538492252742012-08-19T09:15:28.108-07:002012-08-19T09:15:28.108-07:00Do you get annoyed by attention hungry antics? If ...Do you get annoyed by attention hungry antics? If you ever even notice themKaynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-83737579067870197372012-08-17T23:01:18.520-07:002012-08-17T23:01:18.520-07:00"Femininity requires an air of mystery when t..."Femininity requires an air of mystery when talking to suitors"<br /><br />I disagree. I think an air of mystery is a more masculine quality than a feminine one. Femininity is based in receptiveness, openness, and radiance - all of which are candid. Masculinity is far more directed, commanding, agentic, etc. - which, although it is not necessarily mysterious, at least is not antithetical to it.<br /><br />I am not attracted to mysterious women. While of course you can disagree with men, you might what to re-think that idea.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-31498350478935540912012-08-17T22:57:57.367-07:002012-08-17T22:57:57.367-07:00Not everyone is from the south ;)
I say that in j...Not everyone is from the south ;)<br /><br />I say that in jest, but there is some truth to the fact that certain parts of the country have different expectations of men and women.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-57864897594588939102012-08-17T11:13:18.545-07:002012-08-17T11:13:18.545-07:00In response, I would say this lady does not have a...In response, I would say this lady does not have a proper sense of her own femininity to reveal her trademark secrets. Andrew, you seem to value women who are feminine or so you say in your blog. Femininity requires an air of mystery when talking to suitors. She did not possess it. <br /><br />Maybe since you are dealing with California women. In the south, a feminine woman is not going to openly and crassly talk about her techniques......She is going to politely change the subject. <br /><br />She probably wouldn't have worked out for you anyway.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-45475934812815737862012-08-17T08:36:54.910-07:002012-08-17T08:36:54.910-07:00Every sensible southern woman knows this... All mo...Every sensible southern woman knows this... All moms tell their daughters this; "you can show one, but not both. Th e fact that this is new to some of you is quite daunting. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-49260896032351745602012-08-16T17:10:48.818-07:002012-08-16T17:10:48.818-07:00How come a lot of women don't go on a diet and...How come a lot of women don't go on a diet and or try to control that frizzy hair? I don't know :)<br /><br />Honestly though, me and most of my friends will practice this to some extent. If they show cleavage, they will wear trousers or a knee-length dress, if the dress is short it will be more covered up on top. Could it be that a lot of women you have found sexy AND classy have been dressed like this but you didn't realize because men don't have a clue why they find a woman attractive? (insert link to post here)<br /><br />This is perhaps why I still believe dressing slutty attracts the wrong kind of attention. Because the ONLY women I know who show it all at once (legs, breasts, butt) are also the kind who behave inappropriately and therefore attract the wrong men. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-60257952092446720342012-08-16T16:55:50.185-07:002012-08-16T16:55:50.185-07:00I didn't realize this was common knowledge for...I didn't realize this was common knowledge for women until just now. How come more don't do it?Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.com