tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post5663976029303983705..comments2024-03-19T03:07:58.809-07:00Comments on The Rules Revisited: 5 Ways That Men Misunderstand WomenAndrewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comBlogger61125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-34434476158550430562023-02-12T17:40:51.592-08:002023-02-12T17:40:51.592-08:00Oh, I think it is what you need: https://www.uusex...Oh, I think it is what you need: <a href="https://www.uusexdoll.com/cheap-sex-dolls/" rel="nofollow">https://www.uusexdoll.com/cheap-sex-dolls/</a>Judy Bellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12984690287584213829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-86725504861394270122022-03-07T01:07:48.747-08:002022-03-07T01:07:48.747-08:00Each of you has the right to express your feelings...Each of you has the right to express your feelings and take a stand in your debates. The tools will assist you in communicating such messages without inadvertently hurting or overwhelming the susceptible individual. <a href="https://www.lifesuccesscounseling.com/" rel="nofollow">Anxiety in relationship</a> can become a obstacle for you so you should take it seriously. Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847650823139049145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-26037908225947957992019-12-06T07:31:52.723-08:002019-12-06T07:31:52.723-08:00الحصول على بطانيات متحركة رخيصة شحنها مباشرة إلى ا...الحصول على بطانيات متحركة رخيصة شحنها مباشرة إلى الباب الخاص بك!<br />أثناء التحضير لحركتك القادمة ، يعد شراء مستلزمات نقل عالية الجودة أمرًا بالغ الأهمية. أحد الخيارات الأكثر شعبية لحماية الأثاث هو استخدام البطانيات المتحركة.<a href="https://www.3elsyana.com/" rel="nofollow">شركة نقل اثاث</a><br /><a href="https://www.3elsyana.com/%D8%B4%D8%B1%D9%83%D8%A9-%D9%86%D9%82%D9%84-%D8%B9%D9%81%D8%B4-%D8%A8%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AE%D8%B1%D8%AC/" rel="nofollow">شركة نقل عفش بالخرج</a><br />ahmed599https://www.blogger.com/profile/01313709175532905410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-29593541977943963772019-11-20T02:11:10.900-08:002019-11-20T02:11:10.900-08:00This is exactly what I thought.
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Women love a man...I agree with Andrew on this one. <br />Women love a man to lead but men want to make a woman happy. It creates resentment later when the woman feels like the man making all the choices.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-9097381715849229212015-03-16T00:26:15.661-07:002015-03-16T00:26:15.661-07:00I have just found your blog and I find it highly d...I have just found your blog and I find it highly disturbing<br />Are you serious?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-24688878689067522302015-02-01T23:17:15.518-08:002015-02-01T23:17:15.518-08:00If a woman would rather let you f*ck her with no a...If a woman would rather let you f*ck her with no attempt at getting her off, then your attempts at pleasuring her were so tiresome she'd rather you not even try. That is damn depressing. <br /><br />If you would rather make a girl feel wanted by simply f*cking her, because focusing on her pleasure turns you off - that is damn depressing. <br /><br />If you think having enthusiastic and mutually pleasurable (ie orgasmic) sex is an untenable goal, maybe you outta reconsider the entirety of your sexual relationship with this person. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-40114755394390816332014-10-07T12:10:12.181-07:002014-10-07T12:10:12.181-07:00"Its like men no longer want a trophy girlfri..."Its like men no longer want a trophy girlfriend or wife, but they want personality and all this other stuff."<br /><br />>>"All this other stuff."<br /><br />You mean, all the stuff that makes you an actual human being?<br /><br />I'm confused. I can't tell if you're trolling or not. The usual complaint is that men only care about looks and ignore personality (untrue in general, though true for some men in some contexts).<br /><br />And yes, I think there's something to the idea of beautiful women (men too) sometimes being boring, especially the ones who started being beautiful back in middle/high school. There's an element of truth to that south park episode where Abraham Lincoln's ghost visits Kyle. Pretty people sort of skate through life socially, and are never left bored or lonely enough to take up hobbies or interests to pass the time.<br /><br />Here's another thing: men might not be put off by your lack of your own hobbies, not because you're boring, but because it makes you seem even MORE alien to them, and makes them afraid that a relationship with you will wind up awkward and unsatisfying.<br /><br />Most men LIVE their hobbies; men who are successful at careers mainly manage that because their hobby happens to be their career. But ask a guy what he's "in to," and you'll get an immediate list, right down to favorite film genres and video games. And his knowing that you've got no list at all makes you foreign to him; female interests are already face-rendingly vapid to us (The female gender will never live down Twilight, in my eyes), and realizing that you don't do anything for fun is like finding out that you don't EAT, or that you lack a belly button.<br /><br />Men don't expect you to have the same hobbies as them. For example, men don't expect you to be a diehard Star Wars fan. But they DO expect you to at least have enough background knowledge to UNDERSTAND what they're talking about (in this case, Greedo Shooting First). And if they're not going to get that, they might as well be going after some foreign girl; she won't get his jokes either, but at least she's got a hot accent and looks exotic.<br /><br />The moral of the story: build up your existing interests into hobbies. TV shows, movies, literature, current events. You just need to be able to maintain a conversation; you don't actually HAVE to be an interesting person, since that doesn't seem to be your goal here; you just have to convincingly imitate it.<br /><br />A warning to you: eventually, robotics will get good enough that sexdolls will be able to move about, cook, clean, perform idle chitchat, and moan convincingly when fucked. When that happens, you're going to be kicking yourself over not having any personality.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900407154750217644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-72622386822688227272014-09-25T23:18:27.961-07:002014-09-25T23:18:27.961-07:00This is decidedly destructive coming from the view...This is decidedly destructive coming from the view of someone who just happens to be female. You seem to be using gender roles and stereotypes to so much of a clutch, that you're building the entire framemwork of human interaction with anyone who's genitalia differs from you that you're robbing yourself of what it truly means to be passionate and romantic. <br />Are these the theories that make you feel safe?<br />This is how you weed out women who have failed to meet your societal norms? <br />How old are you?<br />Have you been married before? Has it failed? Is this where your beliefs stem?<br />Are you even willing to question or challenge yourself? What empirical evidence have you garnered that completely and irrefutably supports your findings? <br /><br />It would honestly sadden me (oh no - feelings! compassion!) to know you would adhere to these societal norms like a true sheep. I would hope that one day you decide to transcend everything that has been shoved down your throat in order to uphold your privilege and power. <br /><br />Live a little. Question yourself. <br />You may not be around here for as long as you think.<br />Let yourself be scared. <br />Jesus.<br /><br />P.S. Maybe watch Moonstruck. By yourself. Copious amounts of weed. I feel sorry for ya. <br />This is exactly what white people did with black people : give them bad characteristics and claim that its evolutionary rational. You're essentially appropriating hate speech and promoting the negative treatment of women.<br /><br />This will probably fall on deaf ears but I at least felt like I would be doing myself a disservice if I didn't attempt to stand up to you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07722073643360758477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-57302043403872625072014-02-28T13:11:51.737-08:002014-02-28T13:11:51.737-08:00This is the great part of being a guy. Yes means ...This is the great part of being a guy. Yes means yes and no means no.Aurelianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02315459431864659121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-67218042556736162872014-02-06T07:46:07.724-08:002014-02-06T07:46:07.724-08:00I agree, that is a more accurate way of putting it...I agree, that is a more accurate way of putting it. Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-60426897404751458772014-02-05T23:04:57.961-08:002014-02-05T23:04:57.961-08:00Regarding #4, you should do a post on "What M...Regarding #4, you should do a post on "What Men Really Mean" (I don't know if you have already...?) Too often I find myself pulling out my hair listening to girls discussing something that some guy said and trying to figure out "what did he mean by that?" When in reality the guy usually meant exactly what he said. And not only that, but it seems like they'll ask everybody else in the world for a "man-speak translation" - they'll ask their friends, their mothers, their co-workers, their blog followers, put it in a Facebook status, (I've fielded requests myself), etc. - but it never seems to occur to them to just ask the guy himself for clarification! And if they do ask the guy for clarification, they seem to have a hard time accepting it face value, convinced that there's still something else behind the curtain. It seems to me that because men are literal creatures, they take what girls say literally... and because girls are NOT literal creatures, they have trouble taking anything a guy says literally.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-42665770318375178042014-02-05T22:32:11.785-08:002014-02-05T22:32:11.785-08:00@kbp - come to NY, we are inundated with metrosexu...@kbp - come to NY, we are inundated with metrosexual juiceheads.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-47733579405912429682014-02-02T16:00:48.198-08:002014-02-02T16:00:48.198-08:00I think the statement should be "all women ha...I think the statement should be "all women have insecurities", not that "women don't know they're hot". Of course a woman knows she's attractive - as this blog has pointed out before, female attractiveness is a lot down to effort. So she needs to put a lot of effort in, the right effort too, and she sees the result and the response. Obviously women aren't blind to their own appeal, otherwise nobody would get it right.<br />But the smaller, less perfect things can be just as consuming for an attractive woman as many extra kilos will be to an overweight girl. <br />What I take from it is, "men think women know how powerless they feel around them"? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-88508337122563619792014-02-02T10:55:38.467-08:002014-02-02T10:55:38.467-08:00"We're damned if we do and we damned if w..."We're damned if we do and we damned if we don't."<br /><br />True. But I'd rather be damned by society and trusted by my girlfriend/wife than the other way around, which is why I will continue making efforts to be authentic with the women I date.<br /><br />"Do you think the regular selfie photo uploads to social media are a coincidence or a seeking of validation and ego boosting?"<br /><br />Do you think a woman who was genuinely confident would need the affirmation she gets from social media?<br /><br />As for the whole thing about it driving you nuts that women aren't literal, I suggest you take a little more of a relaxed perspective on this one. Women are the way they are for good evolutionary reasons. It wouldn't be an exaggeration to say that women are the way they are (i.e. more emotional) because men want them to be that way. Men (collectively) have naturally selected them to be like that. We didn't fuck the ones who were hyper logical, so those genes didn't get passed on. Yes, true, perhaps the emotional stuff is merely a tolerated side-effect of some other characteristic that we selected for, but if so, it was a trade-off we decided was worthwhile.<br /><br />It just seems a little ridiculous to get upset about something that has so much evolutionary inertia. I mean, do you really expect them to change? Although I share some if your frustrations about (some of) the results of Feminism, I essentially love women just the way they are - and I suspect you do too, otherwise you wouldn't be reading about sexual dynamics on the internet. Besides, a girl who is completely logical and rational is kind of a turnoff. I am that way myself; why would I want my woman to be like that?<br /><br />I am curious how old you are.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-10847410775963374982014-02-02T06:39:27.808-08:002014-02-02T06:39:27.808-08:00@blogster
if so, by the same token, "bottli...@blogster <br /><br />if so, by the same token, "bottling it" (as men are usually wont to do) is not a measure of emotional intelligence either. <br /><br />Using the term loosely, emotional intelligence is generally defined as awareness of one's own feelings, and the ability to control and express such feelings to others in a way conducive to empathy.<br />digrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09831488727504494584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-47228350298971698942014-02-02T05:04:54.559-08:002014-02-02T05:04:54.559-08:00Mary, its called emotional intelligence. We love ...Mary, its called emotional intelligence. We love it when you are joyful, feminine, whimsical etc provided there is no big logic disconnect. The thing that makes men tear their hair out is when there is a big logic disconnect - when your feelings bear no relationship to the REALITY existing at that moment. <br /><br />Trying reversing the genders - a man is angry for no real reason and starts shouting at his girlfriend. Men get CRUCIFIED in such situations. Oh, but hang on, he's being true to his feelings in the moment. Double standard.<br /><br />Just because you feel something, doesn't make it true. The slippery slope with emotions men dislike is that it allows one to be unaccountable for their words or actions because then you have the excuse of "I was just being true to my feelings in the moment." From there it becomes very hard for a man to trust you when what you say or do has no basis to reality. Speaking from personal experience (for once) I had one girlfriend going from telling me she hated me (completely out of the blue) to begging me to stay. Sorry, but ADULTS have the emotional intelligence to regulate their feelings, be responsible and understand cause and effect.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-29760268969551151852014-02-02T04:55:08.905-08:002014-02-02T04:55:08.905-08:00Seriously, do you understand how self-absorbed you...Seriously, do you understand how self-absorbed you come across? Essentially you're asking him to write a post about you. Female solipsism is extremely unattractive to men by the way. Learn to see outside yourself and men will find you doubly attractive.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-55946581109086439972014-02-02T04:52:39.127-08:002014-02-02T04:52:39.127-08:00Another male perspective. Yes by instinct we want...Another male perspective. Yes by instinct we want to fix things and move things forward. Men see those who just complain about things endlessly as weak and not worthy of respect. Yes we understand life gets tough and the need to vent, but repeatedly venting over everything gets old and we simply feel like an emotional masturbation tool for you. You unburden yourself and we get stuck with it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-346953422022368892014-02-02T04:49:19.778-08:002014-02-02T04:49:19.778-08:00"women have greater capacity to deal with the..."women have greater capacity to deal with their emotions, and a better support network"<br /><br />Sorry but this is one of the greatest myths ever perpetuated. Women emotionally venting, or 'processing' their feelings does not constitute emotional intelligence. Of the two sexes, men are known for being more emotionally stable and intelligent and for not using other people as emotional masturbation tools. "The Rawness" website has an interesting perspective on this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com