tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post7717819881288122811..comments2024-03-28T01:29:54.776-07:00Comments on The Rules Revisited: Who Pays On Dates?Andrewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comBlogger61125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-17104917098959676062021-08-04T22:55:10.748-07:002021-08-04T22:55:10.748-07:00I started on COPD Herbal treatment from Ultimate L...I started on COPD Herbal treatment from Ultimate Life Clinic, the treatment worked incredibly for my lungs condition. I used the herbal treatment for almost 4 months, it reversed my COPD. My severe shortness of breath, dry cough, chest tightness gradually disappeared. Reach Ultimate Life Clinic via their WEBSITE www.ultimatelifeclinic.com . 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Dr Odion SPELL TEMPLE is the solution and answer to your problem, contact him today via Email. odionspelltemple@gmail.com or Call or Whats-app him now +2347038832903..Shron Prysockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01877979003495320167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-56373755681622115072015-11-13T14:03:03.628-08:002015-11-13T14:03:03.628-08:00I totally agree with you. I would not waste my tim...I totally agree with you. I would not waste my time and effort on women with the attitude of entitlement. The expectation that it is the man that pays all the time. I give it 2 to 4 dates and call it quits. I have had relationships where we both contribute. The biggest turn on to me is when a women says I got the next date or calls to invite me out sometimes. It shows that she actually appreciates me and has an interest. That makes me want to have something more with here if I am interested like that. I leave the ones that take you for granted ALONE quickly. I can guarantee you all women who have had an actual relationship with me call me a good man because I am actually a giver overall. However, I refuse to be taken advantage of. DTalleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03388628816898287461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-59588379216280184982015-11-13T13:54:59.644-08:002015-11-13T13:54:59.644-08:00Wow. Really? Sounds like a mental game going on he...Wow. Really? Sounds like a mental game going on here. I agree that this is some 1950s and 60s attitudes. The man has got to pay for dates and that is just how it is! Really? I beg to differ. Most of the good women that I have had in relationships chipped in. Not because I could not afford it but because we actually cared about each other. Sure, I usually spent more because I made more. It is the action that made a difference to me. DTalleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03388628816898287461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-58498835479252977442015-11-13T13:50:01.669-08:002015-11-13T13:50:01.669-08:00I agree. The point is not the paying. The point is...I agree. The point is not the paying. The point is letting the guy knowing that he is not being used. Once I know that I have a woman that has my best interest at heart than there is nothing I would not do for her. Having the feeling of being used or taken advantage of is not a good feeling for any one. DTalleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03388628816898287461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-17580507962071112182015-11-13T13:45:54.196-08:002015-11-13T13:45:54.196-08:00I feel the same way about a women that has certain...I feel the same way about a women that has certain expectations. If she expects the man to pay ALL the time than you can pretty much assume that that is how life will be with that person, one sided. No compromise as they see it the way they see it. No sharing because the man is suppose to take care of the financial aspects. Being courted is one thing, being taken advantage of or being taken for granted is another. There is a distinct difference. Personally, I have never felt the need to buy someone or a date. A man feels just as good if the woman offers. It makes a guy feel that this woman really appreciates him. Most guys(Including myself) may take care of it most of the time. It is really not just about the money but about the mindset of the person you are dealing with. Both people have to feel comfortable with the person they are dating. Most men are not Donald Trump. DTalleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03388628816898287461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-24579821367915706402015-11-13T13:38:08.441-08:002015-11-13T13:38:08.441-08:00I agree with the comments. It is outrageous that t...I agree with the comments. It is outrageous that there are women who think men have to pay for their time and attention. Like it is mandatory and we should be honored to be in their company by paying all the time. I took an interest in you by asking you out. Is that not enough. Paying for someones time and attention sounds like an escort , etc. If it is the mans role to pay all the time than I wonder what the women's role is? Just to look pretty? If I was a guy that expected every woman to give up sex on each date because I paid than I would be a dog or an animal. I have heard comments like, "The nerve of that guy to expect sex." If the attitude is that a guy must always pay than as not to be taken advantage of the guy may be right to expect more. After all, Nothing in life is totally free. Point is that the entitlement and taken for granted that the guy MUST pay is ridiculous and as out dated as a woman being bare foot and pregnant, doing what the man says without question and having the mans meal ready when he gets home. DTalleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03388628816898287461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-73030453820865936972015-11-13T13:28:57.278-08:002015-11-13T13:28:57.278-08:00I totally agree Kurt. I totally agree Kurt. DTalleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03388628816898287461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-55916709257064448752015-04-10T18:27:39.348-07:002015-04-10T18:27:39.348-07:00You said
Usually the man approaches, attracts you,...You said<br />Usually the man approaches, attracts you, makes you feel comfortable, all that while leading the conversation. He is the one to ask for your number, offer you a date and organizes it, he will later be the one to kiss you and initiate sexual activities (in most cases it's the man's job). Now honestly - what do you, ladies, invest? Can't I at least expect you to take care of the costs you cause?<br /><br />You asked what ladies invest in a date. It's not uncommon for a woman to buy a new dress (and perhaps shoes) before a date (especially a first date), so that she will look beautiful for him. Sometimes a woman will get her hair and nails done before a date too. Those things cost time and money. The dress alone probably costs more than he spends on her dinner. He enjoys her more attractive, sexier appearance. And since you mentioned sex, a lot of the time women are expected to pay for birth control all by themselves, unless it's a condom. Also wouldn't it be nice for her to wear some new sexy underwear or lingerie to make the sex more exciting for him? By my calculations, she has invested a lot more than the dinner he paid for--a new dress, perhaps shoes, perhaps hair and nails done, sexy underwear or lingerie, and birth control. Women invest far more than men in dating!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-89411723621303926922014-04-28T07:45:13.292-07:002014-04-28T07:45:13.292-07:00I met a girl through a mobile dating site MeetOuts...I met a girl through a <a href="http://www.meetoutside.com" rel="nofollow">mobile dating site MeetOutside</a> and there it had a nice option to say if you will share the expenses on the dates or would pay yourself and things like that. This made the actual meeting a bit easier as I personally wanted to share it, and the girl agreed with my point of view as well, and made our relationship stronger.DatingAvatarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15341453673063290699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-80748321542294196412013-12-19T17:04:13.263-08:002013-12-19T17:04:13.263-08:00if women expect their men to pay for everything, t...if women expect their men to pay for everything, they'll need a strong jaw and a good tongue.digrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09831488727504494584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-11429472440569755922013-11-27T16:29:06.410-08:002013-11-27T16:29:06.410-08:00@Emily L exactly.
it's nice to do, once in a w...@Emily L exactly.<br />it's nice to do, once in a while, something like that out of one's own volition, not out of societal rules and "game" tactics.<br />trick is, for such gesture to be appreciated, it should be only sporadically, and unexpected. when people expect stuff, that's when (some) may take advantage.<br /><br />i personally don't think the behavior that you described (i.e. paying when you know you have more disposable income) would be any kind of problem, surely not at early stages - long as you are both on fair footing. if he feels like stepping up to pay sometimes, let him and appreciate the gesture - men do like to take care of their woman. as for talking number crunch and salary figures, you could bring that up once you're exclusive.<br />digrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09831488727504494584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-39376316202708126972013-11-27T10:12:05.954-08:002013-11-27T10:12:05.954-08:00makes me wonder, if it was the case of lesbian dat...makes me wonder, if it was the case of lesbian dating, if the one who pays for the date is the one who gets to wear the strap on later.<br /><br />ladies...please.<br />choosing to like or dislike someone you have just met, mainly on account of them decide to spend THEIR money on you or not, is ridiculous.<br /><br />i pay for my date if i feel like it. it's not as if I'm gonna play daddy or hubby to someone i barely know.<br /><br />btw, when i do something for someone, i expect nothing in return but gratitude and sincerity.digrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09831488727504494584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-46111921662895371902013-11-27T05:16:11.488-08:002013-11-27T05:16:11.488-08:00@Andrew Lmao.
are you for real? that would've ...@Andrew Lmao.<br />are you for real? that would've worked some 50+ years ago, but i dare you to do that on this day and age..since you are a "man with options" i assume you go on dates quite frequently, so let me know how well that turns out. "serial dating" can be an expensive habit if it's always the same person picking up the tab.<br /><br />even in the case a man has got money to burn, it's still a blind bet. unless you couple that money with other desirable attributes, in which case the fact you can afford to spend on dates, pales in comparison. which is to say, money is important, as a physical representation of a man's ability to provide. but flashing it doesn't come as high on the list as many other things.<br /><br />and yes, i agree that you shouldn't take a girl out if you can't afford the full expected bill. as for myself, I'll be wary of what I'm doing with my money. me paying means interest rate has gone up.digrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09831488727504494584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-77267874837219864292013-11-27T04:16:48.170-08:002013-11-27T04:16:48.170-08:00i second that.i second that.digrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09831488727504494584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-33724989519921316922013-11-27T04:10:47.641-08:002013-11-27T04:10:47.641-08:00this is tradition. what about 'no one should b...this is tradition. what about 'no one should be buying someone else's attention'? <br />this is the reason i go dutch most times, and first date imperative, because i won't know at that point what I'm investing in. however, allowances can be made for extraordinary circumstances.digrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09831488727504494584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-86024902999939145652013-11-17T23:14:08.733-08:002013-11-17T23:14:08.733-08:00Andrew, all -- 99% of the dates I've been on, ...Andrew, all -- 99% of the dates I've been on, the guys have offered to pay, even when I offer to split it. The one time I recall ever paying was in the early stages of a date with a guy who later became my boyfriend for 2+ years. We were at a bar and we settled on him paying and me tipping the bartender. The first date we went on, I paid when he went to the restroom because I need smaller bills for cab fare. He seemed kind of impressed that I didn't just sit there and wait for him to pay. I've also notice men taking me out, spending unnecessary money to impress me, then self-create expectations that sex will be eminent. That doesn't happen often because I've gotten better at screening guys I go out with, but that kind of behavior insults me.<br /><br />When I'm not on a date, I generally follow the income rule w friends, family, acquaintances, colleagues. If I make more money then them, I pay. I'll just grab the bill and say "this is on me." <br /><br />A unique situation I got into was when I met an acquaintance (who I also had the hots for, but he didn't really know, and we were kind of friends). I knew I made at least twice as much as he did, and I had no problem offering to pay for things. We did a mix of splitting bills. IF we went several places in one night, he'd pay, i'd pay, and we'd alternate. I'm not ultra wealthy, but money isn't something I care about. He has asked me indirectly how much money I make, which I've never responded to, mainly just because I don't talk about money, not because I didn't want to tell him how much money I make. Based on what I've described above, do you think I've exhibited behavior that is unattractive to the ordinary man?? Should I call him up one day and tell him how much money I make?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01635860436924542629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-30693251144974086782013-08-25T10:17:26.236-07:002013-08-25T10:17:26.236-07:00Anahita Talebpour:
Being sexually liberated is on...Anahita Talebpour:<br /><br />Being sexually liberated is one thing. Having ridden the Alpha cock carousel is another. Most men these days don't expect virgin brides. They just want someone with a COMPARABLE sexual past. <br /><br />The majority of men only get to have sex with 2 or 3 women before they settle down with one. It is understandable that they want a woman who hasnt had more sex partners than that. They only want an equal. What is wrong with that?<br /><br />I have a simple question for you. Obviously I dont expect an answer.<br /><br />Why dont sexually liberated women, who have had their days of wild adventurous sex with numerous good looking, sexy exciting studs, marry the same kind of men they enjoyed all the sex with?<br /><br />You see, if I have had sex with 50 women, I wouldnt mind marrying a woman who has had 20 men. I would be so confident and secure in my sexuality that I would accept a woman with some history.<br /><br />Why do women marry the men who never got to enjoy the days of sexual gluttony that they did? And then complain that these men are judgmental and insecure? <br /><br /> The Skeptichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16130484376614201968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-13256044102660182022013-08-24T19:30:12.865-07:002013-08-24T19:30:12.865-07:00It's funny how you're so old fashioned whe...It's funny how you're so old fashioned when it comes to a woman's sexual life (she shouldn't be sexually liberated) but when it comes to paying you're suddenly so modern and up-to-date!<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17686271130206451746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-83311331391075124832013-07-21T12:38:10.970-07:002013-07-21T12:38:10.970-07:00I am one of those people insisting on women to pay...I am one of those people insisting on women to pay their own half of the check on the first date (because the first date is a get-to-know-each-other date - I'm not yet convinced if she is worth paying for, on a second date that's a different story entirely). The women who filter me out (hasn't happened yet tho) solely for that reason or think bad of me aren't my type anyway and should seriously reconsider based on the following.<br />Ladies, do you know what the man invests? Usually the man approaches, attracts you, makes you feel comfortable, all that while leading the conversation. He is the one to ask for your number, offer you a date and organises it, he will later be the one to kiss you and initiate sexual activities (in most cases it's the man's job). Now honestly - what do you, ladies, invest? Can't I at least expect you to take care of the costs you cause?<br /><br />An attitude like "the man has to do all the work" is just as old fashioned as it is lazy and dare I say exploitative (a little extreme, I don't mean it in an extreme manner, but it is just a little, you know), plus after the feminist's movements absolutely unnecessary.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-55254808588153402922013-04-23T08:02:01.184-07:002013-04-23T08:02:01.184-07:00"pay for the fucking check, every time, witho..."pay for the fucking check, every time, without a second thought - and don't ask girls out if you can't afford it."<br /><br />-You have a way with words. I like how direct you are. And I just needed to say it.<br /><br />"if he is enough of an asshole to accept. And if he does, dump him."<br />-I'm a bit confused. So on a date:<br />1. Assume you are paying for your half<br />2. Offer to pay for your half<br />3. 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