tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post7994112628562130755..comments2024-03-28T01:29:54.776-07:00Comments on The Rules Revisited: The Importance of HeelsAndrewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09266216180030320537noreply@blogger.comBlogger78125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-21267798310699936322021-12-09T03:49:31.282-08:002021-12-09T03:49:31.282-08:00Ever since my last date, I feel like giving myself...Ever since my last date, I feel like giving myself all the self-love I can give myself and all the peace I can get within. My ex was cheating on me and disrespected our bond for 3yrs, I found out about her infidelity recently, thanks to this Cyber lord 'hackingloop6@ gmail . com', I applied for his hacking service that gained me remote access to her phone activities, I saw her chats with this other guy, and most of her nude photos she always sent him with different styles. I decided to rock my single life and find myself some self-love. You can also reach 'hackingloop6@ gmail . com' he's a legit hacker, he can help you to hack and catch your cheating partner, his service is affordable, tell him I referred you. <br /><br />Purpplebaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17924319581122639928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-38708518247121611142021-03-31T16:11:23.562-07:002021-03-31T16:11:23.562-07:00, I just have to share my testimony on this Forum...., I just have to share my testimony on this Forum.. The feeling of being loved takes away so much burden from our shoulders. I had all this but I made a big mistake when I cheated on my wife with another woman and my wife left me for over 4 months after she found out.. I was lonely, sad and devastated. Luckily I was directed to a very powerful spell caster Dr Emu who helped me cast a spell of reconciliation on our Relationship and he brought back my wife and now she loves me far more than ever.. I'm so happy with life now. Thank you so much Dr Emu, kindly Contact Dr Emu Today and get any kind of help you want.. Via Email emutemple@gmail.com or Call/WhatsApp cell number +2347012841542 Website (https://emutemple.wordpress.com/)Jason Bennetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16896927184869020575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-28903281038765212542018-07-05T12:13:39.192-07:002018-07-05T12:13:39.192-07:00I got separated from my husband 2 years ago. There... I got separated from my husband 2 years ago. There was no communication between us. I was advised by families and friends to let go, forget the marriage and move on with my life. I didn’t want to marry someone else because deep down, I still love my husband. I was in so much pain and confused, until I read a testimony online on how Dr Odion reunion a broken marriage with the help of his love spell powers. I kept reading so many testimonies on how he helped to stopped divorce and bring back peoples ex-lover's to them, and my faith was renewed. I have to contact Dr Odion immediately, few minutes later, he replied and instructed me on what to do, after meeting up with the necessary requirement, 2 days later after he cast the spell, communication was restored between me and my husband. He actually knees pleading me to forget and forgive him. My relationship is now balance and my husband kept loving me every single day by day. His spells worked wonders and our relationship is now stronger then before, and nothing can separate us again. I visited so many website seeking for help, it looked hopeless, until I came in contact with Dr Odion the real man, who helped me to restore my broken marriage. If you're having similar problem in your marriage, you want your husband or wife to love you again, you have someone you love and you want him or her to love you in return, you are having any challenge in your relationship. Dr Odion SPELL TEMPLE is the solution and answer to your problem, contact him today via Email. odionspelltemple@gmail.com or Call or Whats-app him now +2347038832903..Shron Prysockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01877979003495320167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-34490594463356748222018-02-05T16:48:42.728-08:002018-02-05T16:48:42.728-08:00
How to Get an Ex Back
My boyfriend broke up with...<br /><br />How to Get an Ex Back<br />My boyfriend broke up with me its been 4 days now. We have been dating sense he was 18 and I was 22. She has just know turned 21. We have been dating for 3 years and 2 and half months. Through the years we have had a really good relationship it was serious and we really wanted to be with each other forever. Of course we had are arguments but nothing too bad. I know that these past 3 months I had taken him for granted thinking he would always be there but was wrong. he told me he didn’t want to be in a relationship that he wanted to take time with himself. But he was still kissin me and hugging me and telling me that he will always love me and I hold a special place in her heart. I realized that right before he done this that I needed to get my act together but I guess was too late. 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Obviously he needs his space because he cheated on me and this time I really need help to bring him back and marry me, one day i was searching online and i saw a good testimony of how Dr Joy a real Africa spell caster help to restored back broken marriage, getting ex back, fix broken relationship. so i copy his email via??? joylovespell@gmail.com and told him all my problems so he ask me not to worry that my problem are solve that with 2 days, i will get him back which i believe in and put all my hope on and to my greatest notice, after the spell my boyfriend who broke up with me gave me a call to apology and feel so sorry for what he did so my dear ones that is how i got my boyfriend back with the help of Dr joy the real spell caster so also email him now on via joylovespell@gmail.com.you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2347088404185.<br /><br />Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06826667446622302237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-76069619241353943042017-12-31T20:50:16.305-08:002017-12-31T20:50:16.305-08:00Sorry Andrew,but high heels are EXTREMELY unhealth...Sorry Andrew,but high heels are EXTREMELY unhealthy and I'm talking about personal experience. I am a petite 5 foot and I used to have a complex about my height in my teen years, and as a result I was wearing high heels for soooo many years. Something I am paying now. Plantar fascitis and a few other things. Anyways, I ABSOULUTELY am not allowed to wear heels and I always advice young girls to accept what they are. You should never, never and I mean N E V E R sacrifice or compromise "beauty" for health. Whose standards of beauty anyways???? Once upon a time, it looked "sexy" to smoke (have you ever watched those classic movies from the 40s and 50s?). Hey, Humphrey Boggart and Rita Hayworth looked cool with their cigarette in their fingers. Well, I don't think it's the norm today. A guy who smokes is actually very untractive to me. Nowadays, I embrace my short height and believe it or not I love being short. I find myself sexy as I am with flat heels. The funny thing is that I am attracted to tall guys and they seem to be attracted to me too.<br />older and wiserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08029235555812110777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-55583848549620595642015-09-02T05:27:23.387-07:002015-09-02T05:27:23.387-07:00I think Andrew's problem is that he is great a...I think Andrew's problem is that he is great at analyzing how to attract a man initially and how to proceed after a break up, and yet not how to stay in a long term, healthy relationship because he himself hasn't gotten there yet. He's still at that hunting, hooking up mode, even during relationship. He hasn't gotten to the part where you truely yet go, learn to be vulnerable arounda partner, and experience the joy of a real, happy, stable relationship.<br /><br />Sorry Andrew, don't mean to sound aggressive, but that's who you are, and I think it is only right if you acknowledge your limitation in the range of advises you can give due to limited experience. Just so you don't mislead women into people that think being hot and having boundaries while getting to know a guy is all there is to relationships.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-2810046972424416242015-08-31T12:57:06.243-07:002015-08-31T12:57:06.243-07:00Only a man would advise a woman to wear heels all ...Only a man would advise a woman to wear heels all day long at work or at the grocery store. I wish you spend some time writing posts about what it takes to make a relationship last. All of your posts seem to be about how a woman can attract a man or handle him after he dumps her. I accept that men are simple, visual creatures who need to be turned on sexually to get things started, but high heels aren't going to keep a relationship going. Looks fade. Feet will start hurting....and while everyone on this blog is young, you're going to get older and hooking up at the club, wearing high heels, and tight, hot clothes can't go on forever. Men need to appreciate the women they are with because of who she is; because of her character not because of her shoes or tight ass. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-31776145976018377632015-04-26T21:05:05.831-07:002015-04-26T21:05:05.831-07:00Heels are too impractical for most dates...at leas...Heels are too impractical for most dates...at least for me; before I started reading this blog, I was looking up date outfits without heels on YT. I know I will have to cave and wear them more often than wanted but if I am to be relaxed and comfortable and myself...heels are out the questions. So I will be finding sexier styles that don't require heels or tall heels at least. Shehttp://twitter.com/thisisshedailynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-22801652647518647622015-01-12T15:57:26.882-08:002015-01-12T15:57:26.882-08:00good lord how you all fall off the basic subject t...good lord how you all fall off the basic subject theirs no BS about the power of high heels I have been married for 20 yrs to a beauitful women and yes she can walk in them and no she does not wear them to the point of ruining her feet common sense right foot health is not the subject anyway thats what all the women that dont wear heels alwayes bring up and I dont believe the subject really is about hooker heels and wear is this city were all these cheep heeled women are staggering home in glitter ugly slut heels why are you their sounds like great place right hears the facts ladies its not your height its not your weight so to the point its simple my beautiful wife can go out without heels everything is good I see countless men checking her out smiling I can actually see some of them do the head to toe thing and still smile even when she is in quality flats or low heeled boots when we go out and she is wearing her high heels even in slacks or jeans with her brown spanish leather pumps little over four inch heel tapered stiletto very sexy heel no platform and off to town we go at this point I am half way to town and still thinking about how hot she looked gliding i mean walking out to my car could it possibly be the heels ya think I love her ether way but the heels really make it work its like framing the picture I love it cant wait to get to town and show her off now here we are in now mind you this is only about the three hundredth time in twenty years so dont listen to me what do I know well this is what I do know the difference when the instent her sexy stilettos hit the ground the looks start I call it the first look then thats not enough I know they have to see her walk in sexy pumps spinning around to get that second look they cant help it I not kidding they are willing to be caught by their wife or female friend checking out my girls hot heels again poor suckers dont realize they were caught the first time by their flip flop wearing wifes those kind of women can spot a high heeled threat a mile away and are watching their male counter part to see if his high heel radar is on and he is going to try the old sneek a peek trick on my hot wife in heels she has already spotted with keen sences minutes before her lover boy she does this because she does not own a pair nor would she ever wear them they could ruein her feet for life dont you all know this little does she know shes the one with the problem its called be insecure with ones self normal women like my wife that like heels are not bothered by the other high heeled women and will even check them out and if their hot or sexy she will point them out to me and ask if I like them I alwayes give a quick thought before I answer and say if I like the something like yes but they would look a lot better on you baby or Ill tell her you look twice as sexy in yours hon Ive even seen other normal chicks check out her heels and smile at her I have watched men taking pictures of my babyes heels with I phones pretending I guess with their heads down txting or what ever their trying to pull off as their following her from a distance and we havent even made it to the restaurant by the end of the night the end of countless nights with sexy not sluty heels complement after complement from men and women she has had incounters with the how do you wear those heels chicks only because they caught their date ckecking out her heels so my point is yes all the difference in the world when wearing heels I really could go on for a long while telling cool stories about her heels its true wake up dont thing for a second that it is not a factor didnt miss monroe once say give me a sexy pair off heels and I rule the the world remember high heel envy will eat you up every time you go out ladyes m<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-50103809878012421972014-12-15T21:54:42.061-08:002014-12-15T21:54:42.061-08:00Bull. Any heel at all is unhealthy. Stop peddling ...Bull. Any heel at all is unhealthy. Stop peddling ignorance here. OTE adminhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09259422705314063194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-74882713682548764392014-12-15T21:52:38.102-08:002014-12-15T21:52:38.102-08:00What a load of b.s. Any woman who wears high heel...What a load of b.s. Any woman who wears high heels is an idiot and is no different from women who resorted to footbinding in China years ago. Who the hell cares what men want? It's not worth ruining your health.OTE adminhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09259422705314063194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-79035120537627867942014-12-02T02:48:06.027-08:002014-12-02T02:48:06.027-08:00And despite common perceptions to the contrary, no...And despite common perceptions to the contrary, not every guy thinks heels make the opposite sex more attractive. I personally can't stand heels. I don't think they do anything for the person wearing them, and they have a long list of downsides, including long term foot/spine damage issues. From a purely practical perspective, what if you need to run? Your only option is to kick off the heels and run barefoot, hoping there's no broken glass on the street. I was hoping heels would have died off by now as the 20th century equivalent of foot binding but they haven't. Sure, they may attract some guys, but most likely not the kind of guys you want to attract. I prefer the opposite sex in normal foot ware where they can actually keep up with me if running is a necessity, like maybe to catch a train.Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07400924566031414822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-36941258202877864402014-11-28T22:42:17.047-08:002014-11-28T22:42:17.047-08:00Yep, you get a lot for all that pain. The attentio...Yep, you get a lot for all that pain. The attention of mindless idiotsAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09143567811789096270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-31288461248639188192014-11-28T22:39:50.477-08:002014-11-28T22:39:50.477-08:00Painful, a health hazard, but looking nice for men...Painful, a health hazard, but looking nice for men whose values are utterly superficial and dominated by their infantile egos is far more important. A young guy with a knife mugged me one night and fortunately I wasn't wearing heels so I could fight him off and escape. But maybe I should have been wearing heels, then I would have looked more attractive while I was doing itAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09143567811789096270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-78525040399039052662014-11-11T14:10:14.628-08:002014-11-11T14:10:14.628-08:00Everything the author states about high heels is a...Everything the author states about high heels is accurate. But if these are the reasons why women look hot in heels to men, then why are heels also attractive when a woman is seated? I would add that pointing the feet makes the legs appear longer, whether standing or seated.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-7200578961488626642014-04-18T13:40:37.189-07:002014-04-18T13:40:37.189-07:00Suffice to say I am 6'0 tall and I love High H...Suffice to say I am 6'0 tall and I love High Heels! I have been wearing the publicly since 14 years old and at home since I was a toddler in my mom's High Heels. It was ♥ at first sight for me. As for pain, it usually revolves around, not buying the proper size and or style, far too many women refuse to admit their feet are a certain size and try to force their feet into a size smaller than they actually are.<br /><br />Sadly the shoe industry should realize today's woman has feet slightly larger than her mom or grandmother, but the sizes never kept up with the trend and made all sizes larger. Another factor are widths, the designer shoe industry should make their styles in wider widths, many do not, forcing many women that love designer High Heels into narrower widths. Lastly are styles, all women's feet are different women have long slender feet, others short and curvy, some long slender toes others with short toes.<br /><br />Women should vary heel heights, women unaccustomed to towering heels should start out with lower heels and gradually work up to very High... High Heels and the proper style slingbacks v pumps sandals with strapping and latices appropriate to their feet, proper pedicure of the feet also helps also avoid ridiculously long toenails, keep them properly trimmed.<br /><br />Believe it or not many communities have High Heel classes on how to walk properly in them, proper gait etc and what is called high-heel-aerobics, I kid you not! So try those tips. Never ever allow height to interfere with heels, so what if you are equal height or taller than your man put those old ideas away, enjoy your height, its a blessing!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01573559528044709768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-60490135329079940852013-12-21T12:05:10.265-08:002013-12-21T12:05:10.265-08:00High heels are most certainly beautiful, but alway...High heels are most certainly beautiful, but always more limiting than any other type of shoe. A girl in high heels is not up for much, she'll be extremely passive. She can participate in short walks or certain social events, but she will be more or less immobile, in a way that a flat-shoed lady won't be. She'll get tired easily, and from my own observations - have a funny walk (most females never actually master the high-heeled walk).<br />High heels are a limitation, not to mention that they are frequently unhealthy (my foot arches are prolapsed due to wearing high heels for many years). It's probably best not to recommend heels to women, especially "in the grocery store" - that's downright silly.<br />Yoanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12583404138335653899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-73182666208354049852013-09-11T16:11:02.049-07:002013-09-11T16:11:02.049-07:00I think the reason that men are attracted to women...I think the reason that men are attracted to women in heels is because when a woman walks well in them, she is still just precariously upright, as in she is- between every step- slightly off-balance, and could possibly fall. That millisecond wiggle catches a mans eye because it is in his biology to protect and in this case, to catch her. When a woman wears heels, the men who see her feel strong. I enjoy this aspect of mens psychology. Of course, a closed, angular-moving woman in heels is not going to see the same response from men as an open, flowing one. The former looking like a lot of work, the latter looking like a lot of fun. <br /><br />I am 5ft7 and I like to wear heels, but I wear good quality heels and can spend about four hours doing grocery shopping and walking about carrying things, before my feet get sore. The rest of the time, I am barefoot (and at home with children), so my feet show no signs of high-heel-damage. <br /><br />Thanks to the commenter who recommended ballroom shoes! I would love some of those!Imogen Skyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09906936337443654275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-70724041339796313902013-07-08T07:46:54.355-07:002013-07-08T07:46:54.355-07:00...or perhaps you just had nothing in common to ta......or perhaps you just had nothing in common to talk about?Joenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-51001388075179796572013-07-06T13:08:28.878-07:002013-07-06T13:08:28.878-07:00P.S. While in that same night club, a guy came up ...P.S. While in that same night club, a guy came up to me and started talking to me. He was wearing a kilt and I asked him where he had come from. He said he and his friends had all just graduated. He said they were studying to be teachers of physical education. He asked me what I do. I said I'm a Master's student. He said "You're probably a lot smarter than me. *awkward silence* Well, have a nice night." And went back to dancing with his kilted friends. Reminded me of your post on whether men are intimidated by female intelligence. Just wanted to share. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-16672744149165545392013-07-06T12:58:18.908-07:002013-07-06T12:58:18.908-07:00Hi Andrew,
This post is interesting to me because ...Hi Andrew,<br />This post is interesting to me because I live in Edinburgh, Scotland where it is typical for girls to dress like hookers for a night out. Literally, had to argue for ages with my mother about whether every girl she saw was a hooker or not. I'm American and I've lived in four countries and on both coasts of the U.S. so I have seen a lot of variation in the way women dress depending on their culture. <br />Last night, I was at a night club and observing the women there with some of your posts in the back of my mind. I often try to look at women from a man's perspective so that I can understand what makes them look attractive, and what works against them. <br />By the end of the night I came to the conclusion that, what I would usually think of as fake or slutty (the short dresses with no tights, fake tans, tons of makeup, and hair that I don't even understand) probably was in fact attractive to men, but the heels seemed to be the main thing that brought them into the territory of "tacky." <br />This is why:<br />1. If a woman does not know how to walk in heels, or they are not heels she can actually walk in, she will look less attractive. None of the benefits you mentioned above apply if the girl cannot stand up straight and walk properly. <br />2. Some women I see walking home from the clubs have either been smart enough to change into flats, but the vast majority are disgustingly walking home, all sloppily drunk, not wearing shoes at all. Or they are walking with a guy and complaining. Men hate this. <br />3. The shoes people choose to wear. Most of these girls are wearing these heels that are just too high for them to be able to dance in all night or even walk at all, and occasionally they have these tacky rhinestones on them, or something otherwise that just makes them look horribly cheap. Coupled with the short dresses and nothing in between the heels and the dress... it definitely leads them into prostitute resemblance territory. Then couple that with how sloppy drunk everyone is, and it translates to one thing: easy lay.<br />I'm not saying I disagree that heels are attractive, it's just the way I would say the majority of women are wearing them.<br />Most women do not know how to walk in heels.<br />Period.<br />I think it does more hurt than good if you end up in any of the above 3 categories.<br />By the end of night, I was convinced that these girls can keep their fried hair and dyed skin if only they would wear flats.<br />P.S. I actually wear ballroom dancing shoes to weddings (probably the only time I wear heels, yes) because they are high heels that you can actually dance in all night without being in pain.<br />But I'm single so what do I know?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-20768885105817568662013-06-02T19:15:48.962-07:002013-06-02T19:15:48.962-07:00Seeing as many models, like Victoria's Secret ...Seeing as many models, like Victoria's Secret models, are 5"9 and 5"10, it seems heels are a handicap which a woman can entirely compensate for if she's hot enough. Or no?<br />I've experienced also shorter guys enjoying a very hot taller woman - because women usually prefer a man taller than themselves, it gives off certain signals when she compromises. "I may be short, but it's obvious that I'm confident, cool, successful and wealthy, as I've got a girl who's both hot and taller than me".<br />I've seen a couple of men who consciously go for that. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-68501013100233846332013-05-24T15:26:08.660-07:002013-05-24T15:26:08.660-07:00Why don't you work on other things that could ...Why don't you work on other things that could also attract men? (e.g., haircut, dress, smile, being approachable) Besides, you won't feel comfortable and relaxed on your date and in public if you are in pain. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-14782625508418539412013-05-20T06:11:42.405-07:002013-05-20T06:11:42.405-07:00Wedges make you look nice. Stilettos make you loo...Wedges make you look nice. Stilettos make you look NICE.Joenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2882065480599769720.post-28303403261590294162013-05-19T14:13:24.950-07:002013-05-19T14:13:24.950-07:00Some people forget about foot injuries that can ha...Some people forget about foot injuries that can happen while wearing high heels.Nappygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11533612583703567178noreply@blogger.com