Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Why Getting Him Back Won't Help

I need to give some advice that doesn't fall strictly into the category of "here is what you don't realize about men" (or what men like) - not because I want to change the theme of the blog, but because the misunderstanding it corrects is rampant in young relationships, and hopefully pointing it out will free some mental space in the minds of young women so they can instead focus more on their misconceptions about what men want, or other more-important things.

I have answered dozens if not hundreds of e-mails asking for advice about how to correct a relationship after a break-up or a break-up attempt. They usually sound something like this:
My boyfriend and I have been together for over three and a half years. About two weeks ago, he told me he was questioning the relationship and thinks he wants to break up. He told me that he dislikes X, Y and Z about the relationship and thinks they are signs that we'd both be better off with someone else.
We talked about it, and eventually he changed his mind, because we were both more open and honest with each other. We ended agreeing to give it another shot, and to do X, Y and Z differently. So we're still together.
I am glad we worked things out, but now I feel like he has all the powerIt's like I got "almost-dumped." I'm not completely happy with the situation but I am also unsure about how to proceed. What should I do??
In other situations, one person breaks up with the other, and then (by either party's initiative) the couple gets back together, thinking that "this time it will be better." In either case, the important characteristic is that the relationship reaches or nears its end, only to make what seems to be a thankful recovery.

The main problem in these situations normally isn't that one person can't follow through with the promise to change X, Y or Z (though this too is very frequently true, and a close secondary problem). The main problem, and what most people fail to recognize, is that when a relationship nears or reaches a failure point, its limits are defined.

Prior to such an episode, each party could believe - and usually at least hoped - that the relationship was strong enough to sustain limitless difficulties. Neither party knew how much it would take to break the other's feelings or commitment. But a break-up (or near-break-up) changes that irreversibly. Suddenly one partner knows that the other's commitment has real limits. What was once "a love that knew no bounds" and apparently bottomless, is shown to be of finite dept - maybe even shallow. So the disappointment comes, not because the relationship is broken, but because it is shown to be breakable.


There is an additional aspect of this phenomenon that makes it all the more condemning. While each partner previously compared their other dating options to something of unknown and conceivably infinite strength (i.e. their existing relationship), a doubt-forming episode will mean that they now compare their options to something they know to be finite, and perhaps even weak. Both the man and woman will convince themselves far more easily that things could be perfect with someone else, because their optimism about dating, stripped of its previous object, needs a new outlet. So in addition to seeming weaker in-and-of itself, the existing relationship will now be compared to inflated alternatives.


I have a very good guy friend who has been married for six years. His wife recently asked him for a divorce. He confided in me recently that this is actually the second time it's happened; two years into the marriage she did the same thing. At the time, he refused the divorce. He wanted to try to make it work, so they talked it through and she agreed. He essentially convinced her to "work on the relationship" and try to make the best of it.

Four years later, she's done the same thing, and this time, he isn't fighting it - because now he recognizes what I am saying here. Those four years, he admitted to me recently, were always spent in doubt of her feelings and fidelity, caused by the simple fact that she voiced her discontent. The relationship was ostensibly maintained, but the reality was that it had already been undermined by her attempt to end it; and my friend proceeded to waste four years trying to salvage what he essentially knew was dead after two.

Granted, there are some instances in which a break-up or fight doesn't reveal a relationship's depth, just as there are situations in which you might be willing to live with the limitations that such an episode often does reveal. The point here isn't to imply that all break-ups or fights are premonitions of ultimate failure, but to point out that if you find yourself disappointed in spite of having "saved" your relationship from a bad episode, it is almost certainly because that episode showed you that your relationship is more fragile than you'd hoped. So before you spend all kinds of emotional energy trying to get your boyfriend back or resisting a break-up, ask yourself whether just having him (or just having him back) is actually enough to satisfy you.

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If you liked this post, you'll definitely like my book, Beyond the Breakup. In fact, this post has been included as one of the chapters, along with others that explain how to react when your ex tries to contact you, how to understand his motives for doing so, and much more.


Related Posts
1. Why Do You Want Him Back?
2. Why Rejection Is a Good Thing
3. Get Used to Rejection

132 comments:

  1. As soon as someone breaks it, it's broken. I think this has more to do with inner trust and commitment than anything else. When you know someone will walk, (and that's what they are saying when they say it's not working) it's done....the dumpee just doesn't want to admit it and is holding on to something that doesn't really exist.

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    1. It's hard to fully trust again once the trust has been broken, whatever causes that break. Breaking up may or may not break the trust (though it very well could and often will).

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  2. It's true that some instances in which a break-up or fight doesn't reveal anything. We just are unhappy some days.

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    1. That's not what he's saying. To get to the break up point is significant and a strong indicator that the relationship is over.

      IF just being "unhappy some days" results in breaking up, that's an indicator of other issues either with you or some other major problem with the relationship.

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    2. Like the other person being married, saying he's going to leave & get a divorce and that he has a 'plan' to move back to your state where you two first loved each other 28yrs ago & make a life, but waiting 3yrs for it to play out and it doesn't happen so you, being the better person, end it... That would be a major problem.

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  3. Meh, I don't agree with all of this because sometimes people do need to say it's not working because... and deal with what ever the because is. A lot of times the relationship moves on smoothly.

    People can fight pretty hard and say mean things and still be together 10 years later.

    For most that I know of it is when one of the two spend the night or a few days apart to think things out, that is when the break has been made, not the uttering of words.

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  4. Can you give us a hint as to your career? These graphs reek of management consulting background...

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    1. Whatever he does he (a) has a lot of free time (b) is a great writer (c) is still trying to find the right woman and (d) probably doesn't practice what he preaches or is wrong about his advice.

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  5. I agree w this post. Once broken, let it break for good. It's not worth any time or energy.

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    1. How can you tell if something is really broken ? You may go through a rough patch with a long term partner and feel dissatisfied for a while but it does not mean that you want to end things or things have to end.

      For things to really really be at the end, trust is broken (for men) and respect is lost (for women). Like I've said before, men can't love if they can't trust while women can't love if they can't respect.

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    2. Every relationship goes through rough patches, but it is the willingness to overcome those moments that matter. When you are the girl he wants to be with, he'll overcome anything he needs to.

      If he isn't willing to resolve issues as a couple or work on whatever he needs to work on, then you know you are not the one for him.

      Just my two cents.

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    3. Yes Starlight, you say the truth. The thing is, some things are un-negotiable and while a man (or woman) may be willing to work hard with their partner or do whatever it takes to overcome whatever it is that's causing the problem, sometimes that problem just cannot be overcome.

      But yes, the willingness of one to work hard with their partner to solve their problems is a good indicator of how one values their partner.

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    4. eh...it's not that complicated. if there are qualities in a person that you don't like that have taken you to the point ot wanting to break up and you don't have the balls to break up with them, then that's called settling.

      even in marriage, i used to believe that people should never get divorced, but the more i've gotten older i believe in divorce and i think it's a good thing because people make bad choices and sometimes it takes time to realize what a bad idea marrying person x is.

      i have the highest respect for people who are capable of getting out of bad relationships. i have zero respect for people who choose to stay in miserable and failing relationships.

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  6. If there's doubt..it's a don't....my motto.

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    1. When you know someone wants to walk away that's when it's over but we all end up experiencing doubts, and often more than once, over something we've willingly committed to for the long term but being willing to persevere is the big difference.

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  7. insightful post.

    the only thing i'd mention in favor of "getting him (or her) back" is that it allows you to know that you did everything you could to fight for your love. if your spouse says they want to break up and you simply say "ok" when in your heart you don't want to end it, then you will forever wonder if the relationship could have been saved. trying to save the relationship may prove fruitless in the short and medium term, but in the long run, knowing you tried everything you could is very freeing and will allow you to move forward into a new relationship carrying less baggage.

    so in the end, it's a matter of walking the line between trying your best and just torturing yourself. when to throw in the towel is just a judgement call.

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    1. well said, james!!

      My aunt and uncle broke up for three years and they got back together and it's an amazing relationship. this is bull. shat

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  8. I think Andrew is right on this one. There is a difference between saying "I'm unhappy about x, what can we do to make it better?" and saying, "I think it's time to end things because I can't handle the way you x." The former is acknowledging the issues that any relationship will face AND a willingness to work through those issues. Once the person says, as in the latter case, that they see this issue as a reason to end things forever RIGHT NOW, the weakness in the relationship is exposed, and so is that person's willingness to throw in the towel. I think Andrew is right.

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    1. Right on the money for me here.
      A relationship is (or should be, in my idealistic way of seeing the world) about two people. So what affects one, for good or bad, affects the other.
      Too many times the tendency to hedge our bets is strong, even at the first small sign of misunderstanding - grass always greener elsewhere, or the effort to cling on, attempting to fix and find a compromise...but it only works if it's the two. Sounds redundant doesn't it?
      Also I'm inclined to think we more and more, are lacking tolerance in general... Don't know whether it is because of the onset of online dating or whatever, but sometimes we come with incredibly unrealistic expectations, holding a candle to perfection, when we know full well that is NOT how human beings are.
      In the future we'll all be robots if the current trend continues.
      I'm not suggesting putting up with any crap by the way, just practising acceptance and being more understanding.

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    2. You are absolutely right. I have learnt to fight and work on an existing relationship until you cannot take it anymore. I would advise everyone to do so until their tolerance limit is exhausted because no relationship is going to be perfect. If we keep giving up on little things or first break up we will be never committed to anyone and so can't expect others to do the same.

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  9. Andrew-agree with one exception.

    With looking at other potential partners, it is ideal that one learns from the experiences of the relationship that doesn't work and therefore there is expected certainty that those who are considered potential partners are certain to have qualities you'd like to explore. Breakups are sometimes shitty learning lessons, but it helps a person and makes them better for the next relationship. So rather than question marks, I think the strength in other relationship is unquestionably greater because the person makes better choices. Making one or two or three bad choices in relationships is okay, but learning from them is KEY. Shit will happen, but as Kenny Rogers says, you have to know when to walk away...

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  10. Andrew, you are spot on with this post. Of course everyone is going to have ups and downs in their relationships, but as Elizabeth stated above, a conversation (or many) is needed to correct any difficulties, followed up by effort on both people's part. Once someone says they want to end things and break up, trust them and accept it. You will most likely know that the relationship has been stressed for some time at that point. It will be painful no doubt, but fighting it just delays the inevitable, all the while trying to make an unhappy SO happy, which is virtually impossible. Also, taking back an ex who swears up and down that they'll change and do whatever you need to stay...that never works. A leopard cannot change his/her spots. I made this mistake once and will never do it again.

    I think this is the major reason why I am so on the fence about getting married. I want to be able to exit a relationship if my partner or if I'm not happy; I don't want to go through a divorce or suffer unnecessarily in a shitty marriage. Yes, all relationships take work, but once the ship has sailed, it's time to stop standing at the dock.

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  11. Andrew this is a solid post. When a man breaks up with you, believe him.

    Nice graphics too.

    E.

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  12. Agree about breakups, if one thinks that it is over, it probably is. Not all fights, though, reach that level. This is one reason NOT to try making your partner jealous,; it is so easy to overshoot and make them feel they are a second fiddle. (As in every woman who tried it on me; at least six)

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    1. Maybe those women were trying to push the boundaries with you - you know like some children do. It is my observation that women speak loudly but carry a small stick - they give ultimatums which they have no intention of following through - getting all dramatic and threatening this and that when they are not in a position to do so. So when a woman says it's over, you can't really be sure if she has said this a lot in the past. Then again, with women like these, maybe you should just take them at their word and spare both of you any further grief.

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  13. I very much agree, if it's broken, it is BROKEN!In my last relationship I wanted to end things (a couple of times) and every time he would beg me to take him back and that we should try again and that he would try harder. Fool that I was, I did take him back, only to be hurt by him SO much more in the end. I will not make that mistake again. If one hears ice cracking, get OFF the damn ice.

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  14. Totally agree! And RUN fast!!!

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  15. Hi all,

    First time here and I have to say this is a great blog.
    I have recently broken up with my ex after 6+ years (I'm 29, he is 31). He left me and I don't even know the real reason (I don't think he does either). We had a big fight (bigger than any we ever had) and I realised that something was off in the relationship, deeper that the fight, and that we needed to work it out. I said to him that I was willing to work hard to improve things but he had to do his part as well. The problem was that he wasn't sure he wanted that. So after 3 days (I thought he needed some space to clear up his head), he left me. No real reason why, a lot of excuses and he seemed very confused.
    The irony of it is that by doing that I realised that he wasn't worth it and I felt some sort of liberation. I needed to respect his decision but I was also deeply disappointed of the fact that he quit on us and that he was ready to throw down the toilet our 6 years together. He may have left me, but now I don't want him back (now, at this time and place, but you can never say never.). His decision made me quit on something I really cared about and now there is no going back. This pain, this disappointment is worst than the fight or the breaking up. This is probably what your friend felt when his wife asked for a divorce the 2nd time. It's painful as hell, but you can't fight on your own this things, it takes two. And if the other person doesn't want you, you need to seriously consider your options and move on.
    It's horrible, specially if you thought he/she was "the one". :(

    MM.

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  16. So what's the next step? All relationships will get to the point that "one is no longer flawless in the other partner's eyes". Unless really cannot make it continue, I am assuming the other way would be to save it.. I only sense "apart" would be the solution, if I am not wrong, from the article.

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    1. the point is that when things are broken, they are broken. it's not about having to be flawless. if a relationship gets to the point of breaking up, even once or twice iit's time to hit the road. run and don't look back.

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    2. relationships are essentially broken ALWAYS because of our inherent imperfections as humans - relationships are things we put together everyday. people are highly unrealistic and unreasonable in romantic matters

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    3. Exactly Kea. Those who think that marriages should be effortless at all times without having to put any maintenance into them - even when things look bad, like really bad - are doomed to a lifetime of disappointment. Real love is born out of hard work and the motivation to work through rough patches. And not those rough patches that you go through in the first few months - I am talking about the rough patches that come up after years. Those ones are the ones that make or break a relationship. It will take a person a few long term relationships before they get to that "ah-ha!" moment. Source: Me. 1 failed 4 year relationship, 1 failed 9 year marriage.

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  17. Alternatives seem better because they ARE.

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    1. The grass is not always greener and what you see is not always what you get. So no, alternatives are not always better even though they may seem so.

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    2. Agreed. The grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence, its just different grass... My motto: No matter how beautiful/handsome they may be, somebody somehere is sick of their shit.

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  18. Why would an ex boyfriend contact you a year after you broke up (due to distance for school)? This was via text message saying: Hey, how are you? How is school going?

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  19. It's like, if a man dumped me because I wasn't attractive enough, then I may be able to change myself thoroughly by working on my feminine beauty and make myself attractive almost to any man.

    But after that, I should resist the thought of getting back to the man who once dumped me even if after this I am attractive to him again.

    I am worthy of way way more than that.

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  20. I don't know. Perhaps this is true in some cases. But I have many friends that gave each other a second chance and are happily married because they grew past that naive phase of their life when one person/both didn't handle things correctly or value the right stuff. They laugh about how stupid they/that person once were and how they almost blew it but are sooo glad that they ended up back together. Just let the relationship flow naturally.

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  21. Question -

    My boyfriend of 3 months (we were friends first and we were pretty serious - we spent pretty much all of our time together - but he initiated all of that) broke up with me a few weeks before the end of the school year (I am a grad student). After the break up I didn't contact him at all, but a few days later he started coming to study with me and he would text me to hang out, told me how pretty I was, how nice I looked, once told me how much he still liked me, etc. I told him he needed to stop saying stuff like that because he ended it and he can't go back and forth like that. However, I let him study with me (he sat at my study table and I didn't make him leave). We are apart for the summer and he has tried to talk to me a few times online and via text message. I have responded politely but usually I wait awhile and keep it brief and then leave and now its been almost a month since we've talked.
    Did I ruin my chances of him changing his mind by how I acted?

    Thanks.

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  22. We all have different stories and experiences that influence our thoughts. In this case, on this topic, mine makes me disagree with you Andrew, even though I fully understand and appreciate yours and everyone else that agrees with your point of view. It does make sense. But there's always exceptions and everyone needs to determine for themselves what they can and cannot accept, what they can and cannot live without and what they want to invite back in to their lives.
    My influence comes from marrying my first love at the age of 23 and being widowed at the age of 32. Life itself is vulnerable. It is so easy to forget that and get carried away in day to day life. Its easy to take things and people for granted. Sometimes we need that kick in the ass to make us realize that even a phenomenal relationship takes work. Effort can never cease.
    It took a long time to get back out there and it was extremely difficult. But, I did meet a man who completely took me by surprise and made it easy by being absolutely amazing. We were in the very beginning of the relationship when life happened. His father became very ill and a somewhat traumatic event occurred with his unstable ex girlfriend. He started to pull away. I gave him space. But when I started to feel like I was there more as a convenience, I had to leave.
    He handled things with me terribly. He could have very well just not been into me. I could have been a rebound. I don't really know. What I do know is that he's an idiot. One of the last things he said to me was that he enjoyed his time with me, he was attracted to me, and I always made him feel amazing. I also know that if that's true and I believe it to be, then one day when the time is right he might wake up and realize what he doesn't have. And if he chose to seek me out and I was available (I am not waiting by any means for this to happen!) I would want to try it again. This is where my disagreement fits in... I would be happy that he would know that our relationship is vulnerable and it always will be. But with constant effort... (a renewed) trust, respect, and communication... and what you get back in return, it won't feel like effort. I learned this the hard way and its one of those tough life lessons I refuse to forget. I also learned that it is very difficult to meet those people that you feel that connection with. Those that for some reason, just get to you like no one else. What you have to do is do your own soul searching first and be true to yourself... are they really that person? And if they are, then its worth the fight and the forgiveness (as long as what you are getting in return is that amazing we all deserve).

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    1. Thank you for these inspiring words, I really needed them. I'm in a complicated situation with my first love who broke my heart an my family hates, but now he's back. We have been taking for the past month an a half an I have been very skeptical, but I truly believe he wants this to work. So much so that he had told me he would gladly spend the rest of his life with me and face whatever trials and tribulations with me and my family. I'm just really scared. I don't want to get hurt again, but like you said it's hard to find someone who you have a connection with. When I'm with him I'm able to be 100% myself, I'm comfortable and confident with him. I guess I'm mostly worried about my family getting along with him again. My family is most important to me and they have viable reasons for why they don't like him, such as him not being there for me when all 3 of my grandmother's pasted in a 3 month period. That's what hurts the most. How do I know he won't pull a stunt like that again? I mean I would like to believe he won't but he's kinda the reason I'm skeptical about any relationship anymore..

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  23. I have a question- From reading this and other blogs, it seems that getting back together with an ex or previous dating partner never happens and is a waste of time for us women who may be hoping for this scenario. Well, the last four men that I've dated have either cheated on me or gotten back together with their last ex, leaving me to feel like some weird rebound girl. It's also starting to make me overly paranoid of every ex girlfriend, and that is awful. I'm an attractive, smart, happy-go-lucky, fun girl, and I get approached by men just about every time I go out, but I'm picky with who I give my number to and even pickier with who I date. If this never happens, why does it keep happening to me!? Is there any way to know up front (verbal or body language, telltale signs, etc) if a guy is still hung up on his ex, or at least still dipping into that pot?

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    1. People who get divorced and then get married back to each other are about 17% of divorces. Let that be your guide. About 1 in 6.

      If the men you date consistently cheat on you, your marriage market value is not high enough to secure long-term commitment from such men. Your sexual market value probably is high enough to secure several months of dating.

      Work on improving your attractiveness and your marriage market value. (I.e. read this blog a lot more.)

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  24. @sharron jenna: and at that exact moment: behold, the unmistakable stench of bullshit filled the air :D

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  25. I had been dating this guy for two weeks. He was intensely attracted to me, to the point where he told (after a few drinks) he's even surprised I showed up for our second date. When I asked him why, he said you're way too attractive for me.

    Anyway at some point during a conversation, I may have mentioned to him that when I'm done with a guy I usually fade away (yes avoidant I know). However, this must have stuck with him , because a week later, I was traveling and didn't receive his text, HENCE, I did not send a reply. After another day had passed, he canceled our weekend which has had organised and spent lots of money on.

    I thought it strange someone would do that over one missed text message. He also didn't follow up to ask if I was still going or if I had got back from my trip okay.

    Finally when we spoke couple days later (I initiated contact to ask what had happened), he said he had assumed I was giving him the silent fade away. Is anyone reading this as astonished as me?

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    1. Very surprising in my opinion. There are a couple things that could impact his take on things however. One is if he recently got out of a relationship. another is cultural ethnic background. Are either you or him of a particularly different cultural/ethnic background?

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  26. Fucking brilliant. I don't agree with some of the things I am reading on this site (discovered you yesterday!) but this is dead on. Thank you.

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  27. An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me..
    My name is Destiny Mark, i live in CANADA, and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife, with two kids. A very big problem occurred in my family five months ago, between me and my wife. so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again, and that she didn't love me anymore. So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain's. I tried all my possible means to get her back, after much begging, but all to no in Vail. and she confirmed it that she has made her decision, and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening, as i was coming back from work, i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife. So i explained every thing to her, so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back, is to visit a spell caster called dr,uguel because it has really worked for her too. So i never believed in love spell, but i had no other choice, than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster dr,uguel whom she visited. DRUGUELSPELLHOME1@GMAIL.COM}. So the next morning, i sent a mail to the address she gave to me, and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day. What an amazing statement!! I never believed, so he spoke with me, and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {5}months, gave me a call to inform me that she will be coming back home. So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day, with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake, and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day, our relationship was now stronger than how it were before, by the help of a spell caster dr,uguel. So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {DRUGUELSPELLHOME1@GMAIL.COM},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back.
    So thanks to the DR, UGUEL for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again. {DRUGUELSPELLHOME1@GMAIL.COM}
    Thanks... destiny mark.

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  28. My heart was crushed in early February this year 2015 and my marriage and Love life was completely muddled and broken down. I was so heart broken and i needed to put an end to the imbroglio that has affected my marriage for the past nine months because i and my kids needed my husband to be back home this Christmas. I knew fully well that I must learn to love myself before anything else and i knew he was meant for me with no doubt, because when we first met till after 14 years of our marriage, he was there for me. After our divorce, without a shadow of a doubt I do felt completely off balance and i was living each day with no direction and very little actual presence of myself. I felt like I was on auto pilot and I was wasting day after day all in pains..And as of February 3rd, he started bringing in all the lies, the other women, etc. I knew I married for bigger reasons so I hope its just the fog of our issues that brought in the uncertainty. I always liked to keep an open mind, because ultimately i just wanted everything to be ok with the 3 of us (my son my husband and myself) And Its has not been easy after all the times he's left. I just didn't want to keep falling deeper into the wrong direction. My divorce totally went into default in FEBRUARY. I was totally frustrated and i needed help from an online spell caster which Priest Omar rendered to me completely. Finally I am writing this testimony to offer my thanks and deep gratitude to you Priest Omar for keeping to your words and your promises in bringing him back to me in just 24 hours of your powerful spell casting, and for using your gifted and great powers to bring him back today the 2nd of November 2015. Its an Amazing experience i had with you priest Omar. Are you out there experiencing same problems in your marriage, then you can reach him on His Email: victorywhitemagicspell@outlook.com.. His Website: http://victorywhitemagicspell.webs.com. you can also call him on his Telephone: +1 863 274 3763.

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  29. Hm. Well, my parents broke up for a year. Got back together and married. It's now 42 years later.

    Soooo.... never say never.

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  30. him back but its seems so so difficult because he was already inlove with the other woman. he warned me never to call his phones again, even when i do the woman picks and insult me. she called me all sort of names, so i decided to let be. just few weeks ago, i met a good friend of mine walkin with her husband, i felt jealous, i greeted her and we both had a chat, so she introduced me to someone who helped her to get her man back, and that she had a similar case. she introduced me to Dr. Uzor, and asked me to contact him online on: uzorspelltemple@gmail.com, which i did. the great Dr. Uzor assured me that in seven days, he will come begging. exactly the seventh day, he packed back home, with tears in his eyes, that he was blind folded spiritually. now we are having the best family happines anyone could ever imagine. thanks to Dr. Uzor. you can also contact him for any form of probles you wish to solve. reach him on; {uzorspelltemple@gmail.com}or you can visit him on website: (www.uzorspelltemple.webs.com )

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  31. BE CAREFUL HERE MANY OF THE DOCTORS HERE ARE SCAM,MOST TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE THEY ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM.I GOT RIPPED OF THREE THOUSANDS DOLLARS BY 4 CASTERS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS WITH OUR 4 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME UNTIL ONE FAITHFUL DAY I GOT IN CONTACT WITH MADAM SOLUTION WHO DID WHAT I CALLED MAGIC BECAUSE I CONTACTED HER ON FRIDAY AND AFTER GIVEN HER MY DETAILS AND $245 FOR THE SPELL CASTING MY WIFE CALLED ME ON SUNDAY AND NOW WE ARE BACK TOGETHER AGAIN IF YOU NEED SIMILAR HELP THEN CONTACT HER NOW VIA EMAIL AT (magic.lovespel@reincarnate.com).or (mama.anitaspellcraft@hotmail.com) or (mamaanita.lovespellsolution@gmail.com)

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  32. After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called Dr Zuma zuk and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: spiritualherbalisthealing@gmail.com or call him +2349055637784 you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS

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  33. My name Lisa Paul I was in a rut for a long time I lost all my money my marriage headed to separation I prayed and prayed then i saw is contact and I called him at +2349073364485 and told him what was dealing with I needed money for home a car and my marriage back on track not only did my husband come back but my money came back and triple thank you so much Dr Dan you can also email him on this Dr.Danherbalhome@yahoo.com

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  34. My name Lisa Paul I was in a rut for a long time I lost all my money my marriage headed to separation I prayed and prayed then i saw is contact and I called him at +2349073364485 and told him what was dealing with I needed money for home a car and my marriage back on track not only did my husband come back but my money came back and triple thank you so much Dr Dan you can also email him on this Dr.Danherbalhome@yahoo.com

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  35. I’ve been married to my husband for 5 years now and I was at a total loss as to what was going wrong with our marriage. He just seemed to stop loving me. One of the EBook of Doctor Casera Zaza that I read online helped me to save my marriage life, I’ve totally changed the way I approach the situation as I followed the instructions given to me by Doctor Casera Zaza it was not easy during the last two months been a Breast Cancer patient but the turnaround in our relationship has been simply amazing for my husband is back and the love and affection he's showering on me is so loving and I highly recommend to all the great Doctor Casera Zaza for he's able and capable to help in any situation. If anyone out there needs his help, get in touch with him via Email at; relationshipsolutionhome@hotmail.com OR Call/text: +1 (518) 460-6400. He can also cure diseases like Hiv, Aids, Herpes Virus, Cancer, E.T.C.

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  36. I’ve been married to my husband for 5 years now and I was at a total loss as to what was going wrong with our marriage. He just seemed to stop loving me. One of the EBook of Doctor Casera Zaza that I read online helped me to save my marriage life, I’ve totally changed the way I approach the situation as I followed the instructions given to me by Doctor Casera Zaza it was not easy during the last two months been a Breast Cancer patient but the turnaround in our relationship has been simply amazing for my husband is back and the love and affection he's showering on me is so loving and I highly recommend to all the great Doctor Casera Zaza for he's able and capable to help in any situation. If anyone out there needs his help, get in touch with him via Email at; relationshipsolutionhome@hotmail.com OR Call/text: +1 (518) 460-6400. He can also cure diseases like Hiv, Aids, Herpes Virus, Cancer, E.T.C.

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  37. OMG OMG OMG!!!!!!!!! I can’t believe ___dr.mack201@gmail.com could bring my boyfriend back!!! I am so impressed with the result, everything happened so fast

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  38. Genuine online spell cater on urgent love spell to get your ex back, fix your broken marriage and stop divorce happylovespell2@gmail.com is the best dr to help you and restored back your happiness
    I just found out about my husband cheating on me with a co-worker! We’ve been married going on two years. 2kids. lots of amazing momments together. i want to leave, but i love him so much. all i can think about is how nothing stopped him. how he has to see her everyday because they work together. we are both still young and very attractive. but i want my husband, my friend, and the father of my beautiful children. how do i get past the thought of another woman having my husband? Not my fiancé, not my boyfriend, but my husband! i still love him even though he thinks i want to leave i really want him to do better and stop me before i walk out! my husband told me that he doesn’t feel loved anymore, just because of this co-worker he has be cheating on with me that he wants a divorce, i was devastated, heart broken i begged him to listen to me that we can work it out like we always do, but he didn’t listen, he told me that he met someone that loves and understands him, i begged him to consider our kids but he’s did listen. he left and i was frustrated, i began searching for help and answers, then i heard about a man that can Cast a spell to remind him of all the things we have been through together, at first I was scared then i decided to give it a try, and like magic my husband came back, apology and begging for forgiveness, thanks to this man, I’m posting this to help people with
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  39. Hi Friends Dr. OCUSODO is the best spell caster to help fix your relationship problem
    Read my testimony and contact him now:

    I never knew people still have powers and make things happened this way. My name is Sandra Raymond am from United State. my boyfriend Williams left me for another girl for three months' ever since then my life have been filled with pains, sorrow and heart break because he was my first love who dis virgin me when I was 19 years old. A friend of mine Kido Matthew told me he saw some testimonies of this great Dr OCUSODO that he can bring back lover, I laugh it out and said I am not interested but because of the love my friend had for me, she consulted the great priest on my behalf and to my greatest surprise after three days my boyfriend called me for the very first time after three months that he is missing me and that he is so sorry for every thing he made me went through. I still can't believe it, because it highly unbelievable it just too real to be real. Thank you Dr OCUSODO for bringing back my lover and also to my lovely friend who interceded on my behalf, for any one who might need the help of this great priest here is the email address: drocusodospellcaster@gmail.com or drocusodospellcaster@yahoo.com or add him up on whats-app +2349067457724.

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  41. I"m Marie Gary from USA..This is my testimony on how my ex lover come back home..i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to chief priest Dr. OCUSODO for bringing back my lover who left me for almost 2 year,i feel like my life is completely over, so one day as i was browsing searching on the internet for recommend spell caster who will help me to bring my lover back,Finally i met a writing how so many testimony talking about how Dr OCUSODO help to restore relationship back,so i decided to give it a try so i contacted the spell caster called Dr.OCUSODO and explain my problems to him,and he cast spell love spell luckily within the 48 hours my lover really called me and started apologizing for all he had caused me.and be begging me to accept him back and will are live happily marriage, I am the happiest woman on earth today because Dr OCUSODO has done a wonderful deeds in my life and i will continue to share this testimony, i pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like mine, contact him.

    drocusodospellcaster@gmail.com OR drocusodospellcaster@yahoo.com

    or add him up on whats-app +2349067457724.

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  42. Hi everyone act there.. i am from germany. i will never forget the help DR.Mack render to me in my marital life. i have been married for 5 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly and deeply. after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside,i praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious.my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside. i was confuse and i did not no what to do at first. i was searching for help in the internet, i saw so many people sharing testimony on how .Email.dr.mack201@gmail.com help them with their relationship problem. i email him and tell him how my husband left me. And he assure me that my husband will be back home within the next 48 hours .To my greatest surprise my husband came home on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him,i was truly astonished and shocked when my husband knelt down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him back.. I am really short of expressions, and i don’t know how much to convey my appreciation to you dr. Mack you are a God sent to restore broken relationship. And now i am a joyful woman,

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  43. URGENT EFFECTIVE LOVE-SPELL TO GET YOUR EX BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND BACK FAST.
    peterlovespell@gmail.com is certainly the best spell caster online, and his result is 100% guarantee.
    I am Sarah Barbara from USA, after 4 years of relationship with my boyfriend, he broke up me and brought in another Girl, i did all i could to get him back but all proved abortive, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across website that suggested that Dr peter can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my boyfriend really called me and told me that he miss me so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me . Then from that day,
    Our relationship was now stronger than how it were before, All thanks to Dr peter. he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that Dr.peter real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at: peterlovespell@gmail.com , you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2348100168299 ,you can also visit hiswebsite: https://peterlovespell@gmail.com


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  44. My husband and I have been married for 3 and a half years. In June it will be 7 years that we have been a part of each other lives. Recently he found out about a guy I slept with when we were separated and I did not tell him about. Before we got married we both agreed to let everything out and start fresh. I didn’t tell him. I was embarrassed bc the guy and I never actually had sex…just everything that led up to it. not to mention it was my brothers best friend and a huge mistake. well it came out recently along with some lies. A friend told my husband I cheated on him and I have never cheated on my husband nor would I ever. He is convinced I am a cheater. we have 2 beautiful kids and all I have ever wanted is a happy family. my kids and my husband truly are my everything. I can not see a future where my husband is not in it. I want to do whatever I can to save my marriage but I feel my husband is already set on the divorce. I know I could have been a better wife to him….a wife he deserves but now I fee like I have realized it too late. I look at my kids and I hate myself for allowing myself to break my family apart. I know my husband is not perfect and he has hurt me tremendously these past 5 years we have been off and on but we made it through for a reason. I love him and I want to save my marriage, one day a friend of my introduce me to a spell caster online who lift me up gave me hope and with-in 2 days after his spell my husband who told me he needed a divorce, called me and take me back home to me i must say today we are happily as one big family again all thanks to Dr joy a father and a real spell caster.Contact email address joylovespell@gmail.com Call him +2347088404185.

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  45. THANK YOU DR OYINBO FOR RESTORING MY MARRIAGE BACK TO ME YOU ARE A REALL SPELL CASTER INDID

    My name is CAROL WILLIAMS. Me and my boyfriend were together for 8 months & its been 6 months since we separated. I still love him, but some how feel its unfair. Why love someone who ovb doesnt love you back? Ive prayed & prayed for these months & nothing. He is still with his new girlfriend(whom he lives with) but it doesnt mean I have to look for help The first weeks after the break up I was in my knees praying looking for help, them i fine a comment online how a spell caster help to restored relationship get ex lover back, ” so i decided to give a try coz i love my boyfriend so much. so i contacted PROPHET OYINBO and told him all my problem and he gave me 100%guarantee that i will have my boyfriend back after the spell so i was gifted and lucky to have contacted him i did everything he asked of me and to my greatest surprise a day after the spell, my boyfriend called me and apologised for what he did to me and ask for my forgiveness to come back home for me, I got really hurt & go through those moments in which he left me, after all PROPHET OYINBO did for me, i forgave him and he came back home with more love and happiness all thanks to PROPHET OYINBO the real Africa spell caster so far google recommended this year.. So plz, if you need any help contact him too on this. You will see in conclusion you have to just trust the process, PROPHET OYINBO is a good real spell caster so call him up on +2348074066640 or email him on his email adress prophetoyinbojesus@gmail.com or you can call him at +2348074066640

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  46. My name is Becky Ross , I really want to testify to the good work of Prophet ogidi for what he has don for me . couple of years ago, my husband left home after we had little misunderstanding, he never returned, no phone calls, no letters, no emails and no sign of him anywhere.and at the same time My daughter got sick so ill, things were so tough for me. I had lost hope, 2 years ago, i met a psychic, he said he would help me, i give him a try but all to no nothing happened, i lost hope completely, my daughter's situation got worse each day. Last month, i saw a posting concerning the good works of the Spiritual professional(prophet ogidi), i told the great man my problem and he told me that there is nothing to be worry about for me contacting him all my problem is solved .. He asked me to provide the spiriual materials needed to cast the spells and of cost which i did (Bring Lover back, Healing spell and Career spells). In a matter of weeks, my husband called me and told me he was sorry and that he wants to come back to me and that he would explain everything when he comes back, three days later, i got a call from the new job i apple for with an Real Estate company, right now, my daughter's is finally healed. I want to thanks prophet ogidi,for what he has don for me and my family. you can contact him via email: MIRACLECENTER110@GMAIL.COM. the solution to all problem i know you are going to be the next to share your testimony to people you can call the great man on +2348182260982

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  47. After being in relationship with Harry for Five years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. but one day I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in love spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: druguelspellhome1@gmail.com you can email him or called him on +2347056683626 if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: druguelspellhome@yahoo.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS

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  48. I am very happy, I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Enato has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, i was married to this man called Steven we were together for a long time and we loved our self's but when i was unable to give he a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can't continue anymore then i was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email (ugbefenlovespell@gmail.com) then you won't believe this when i contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and after a month i miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr Enato for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through this same kind of problems you can contact he today on his mail (ugbefenlovespell@gmail.com) http://ugbefenlovespell.wordpess.com whatsapp +2348107927774
    and he will also help you as well

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  49. DO YOU WANT YOUR EX-BACK?
    ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP?
    ARE YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP AND DON'T WANT TO LOOSE IT?
    ARE YOU GOING THROUGH SPIRITUAL ATTACK?
    Dr. Oko is a herbal and spiritual healing specialist, he will help you with all your needs. I am a testimony to his great powers. Contact him through: okospelltemple@gmail.com
    Call or Whatsapp: +2347084878384

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  50. I was suffering from hiv/aids my pcv which is my blood level was very high, i was worried about my cd4count and viral load.. i heard about the power of Dr Edes healing medicine i apply for it and the doctor gave me the medicine and spiritual healing prayers to say and told me that the power of the healing drugs can cure my hiv/aids and he also told me to for get about the pcv, cd4 and viral load.. i really used the medicine and i was cure from hiv/aids i urge you all to get the DR healing medicine, you reach the great man that produce the healing medicine through his email address at: dr.edeshome1311@gmail. com or Whatsapp him on +2348148347000 his there for you
    DOCTOR EDES CAN AS WELL CURE THE FOLLOWING DISEASE:-
    1. HIV/AIDS
    2. HERPES
    3. CANCER
    4. ALS
    5. Hepatitis
    6 Diabetes
    7 LOVE SPELL
    8 IF YOU NEED YOUR EX LOVER BACK TO LOVE YOU AGAIN

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  51. I WANT TO SAY A VERY BIG THANKS TO DR. TONY FOR RESTORING HAPPINESS INTO MY LIFE AND FAMILY.
    I want to let the whole world know about Dr. TONY the Great spell caster that brought back my husband to me when i thought all hope was lost. Dr.TONY used his powerful spell to put a smile on my face by bringing back my man with his spell, at first I thought i was dreaming when my husband came back to me on his knees begging me to forgive him and accepted him back and ever since then he loves me more than I ever expected so i made a vow to my self that i will let the whole World know about Dr. TONY, because he is a God-sent on earth. Do you have problems in your relationship? Have your partner broke up with you and you still love and want him back? Do you have problem with your finance? or do you need help of any kind then contact Dr. TONY today for I give you 100% guarantee that he will help you just as he helped me. Dr. TONY email is: drtonylovespellcaster@gmail.com OR Call/Whatsapp via: +2348154900380

    Vivian From California, USA

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  52. I am really pleased with this service of this powerful spell Caster. Dr. ODIN, if you are going through any kind of spiritual attack or affliction or you want to get your ex-husband or wife back? Dr.ODIN THE GREAT is a traditional herbal and spiritual doctor that can help you out. Contact him to help solve your problem for you free of charge. . His contact detail is email address: drodintemple3523@gmail.com or watsaap +971552789067 He is always ready to help you.he is very powerful and can solve any kind of problem below. Do you want your ex lover back? Do you want to get pregnant? Do you want your husband to appreciate you? Do you want to be famous or rich? Do you need your business to grow excessively? Do you need a job? Do you need a husband? Do you have a problem in your marriage? Contact: drodintemple3523@gmail.com or watsaap +971552789067

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  53. I'm so glad I found dr.unity-Help Me Save My Marriage" My wife left me a month ago after 14 years of being together. I’ve spent the last month agonizing, crying, feeling guilty and feeling the lowest ever. i did so much to get her back but nothing worked out not until i saw a comment online when someone was testifying of how Dr Unity helped him to restored back his wife and that was how i contacted him through his email and after writing my issue out he assured me that he will help me to get back with my wife in 11hours after casting the love spell, and after he did the spell my wife came back home and pleaded that she is very sorry for the pain she caused me and the kids. i am back with my wife and we are both happy and living together again. i know there are many people out there that want's to get their love back please contact Dr Unity cause he is the perfect answer to your problem.Here’s his contact:
    Call/WhatsApp him: +2348055361568 ,
    Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com

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  54. Hello my name is Carla Fiona   i'm from Germany i want to testify of a great and powerful spell caster my husband left me and the kids for 8 weeks now when i called him he didn't pick up when he came back home the 9th week he told me he wanted a divorce i was so sad i cried all night he left again i was so lonely the next day i was searching for something online when i found a spell caster called Dr Alli who have helped so many people with their problems so i contacted him with my problems he told me it will take 48hrs and my husband will be back to me i did every thing he told me to do and the next day my husband came back kneeling and begging he canceled the divorce we are now happy together Dr Alli can help you too Email him at Allispellhelp1@gmail.com or WhatsApp +2348100772528

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  55. Do you have any problem bothering you?
    Do you want to win a lottery
    Do you have any illnesses?
    do need a pregnancy spell?
    Do you need a reading?
    Are you depressed?
    Or you need to bring back your ex?
    I bring good news; Erica Magic the great psychic/love spell-caster is here to help you. She is here to help you get that problem to solve forever. emagicp101@gmail.com

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  56. I got my man back with the help of Kwale Temple. Without delay I was able to get my man back after 6 months of break up, I got him back after 48 hours with the help of Kwale Temple. You can contact Dr Kwale on kwaletemple@gmail.com or add him up on Whats App +2348056141089

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  57. Hi, I’m Natasha. I’m a wife, mom to 3 kids and After 14years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. I felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he could come back to me, I was really worried and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a Love spell for me. 11hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before, Thank you dr.unity for bringing back my husband and i recommend dr.unity for anyone who is having troubles in their marriage/relationship.Here’s his contact Call/Whats-app: +2348055361568 ,or Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,website:https://drunity.simplesite.com

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  58. Get Your Wife Back, Perfect Urgent Love Spell. Am Karen Renee from FL Usa All Thanks To Dr Osasu Who Brought Back The Love Of My Life. my girlfriend cheated on me and asked for a breakup. I don't believe at first i try to get back with her but all she told me was she’s with someone else. that she is no longer interested in marrying me at that point i was heart broken because i love my girlfriend so much that i could not let go off her all of a sudden she left me, i really love her and never can imagine my life without her. not until i came across a powerful real spell caster Dr Osasu who promise me 24hours urgent love spell to get back with my girlfriend, good twenty-four {24} hours. hmm-mm, it was a good night time at 11:pm within the days that Dr Osasu told me that my girlfriend will be back, at first i heard the bell rings getting close to my door i heard someone saying honey!!!, it sound familiar i opened the door and i saw my girlfriend standing and weeping in front of me. i was not surprised because its all i have been praying for her to come back home. Guess what 2 weeks after she noticed her system and her body temperature was changed and i took her to clinic for check up and the doctor told me that there is life in her which means she was pregnant i really wants to use this opportunity to thanks Dr Osasu so much and the love page that directed me to Dr Osasu if you have any problem getting your ex back, or predicament that is worse or exactly like this you have been into, contact Dr Osasu on drosasu25@gmail.com You can add him up on Whats-app/ Or call +2347064365391

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  59. This is the most wonderful thing i have ever experienced. I visited a forum here on the internet, and i saw a marvelous testimony of Tracie Aldana on the forum about the good works Dr. Silver, I never believed it, because i've never heard anything about such miracle before. No body would have been able to convince me about it not until Dr. Silver did a marvelous work for me that restored my marriage of 4 years by getting back my divorced husband just as i read on the internet. I was truly shocked when my husband knelt down pleading for forgiveness to accept him back. I am really short of words to use to show my appreciation to Dr. Silver For his a God sent to me and my entire family for divine restoration of marriage. Contact him now for any kind or help via Email: drsilverhealingtemple@gmail.com

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  60. Hello everyone reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. One day when I was reading through the web, I saw a post on how this spell caster Dr irosi have help a woman to get back her husband and I gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that I will have my husband back. I believed him and today I am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back because I am now happy with my husband. Thanks for His great work here is his email: drirosisolutioncenter@gmail.com Or call his number  +2348118829771, Contact Dr irosi and get your relationship problem solved. Great Dr irosi could also help you with the following:
    1) Love Spells
    2) Lost Love Spells
    3) Divorce Spells
    4) Marriage Spells
    5) Binding Spell.
    6) Breakup Spells
    7) Banish a past Lover
    8.) You want to be promoted in your office/ Lottery spell
    9) want to satisfy your lover
    Contact this great man if you are having any problem for a lasting solution
    EMAIL..... drirosisolutioncenter@gmail.com

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  61. What a wonderful and a straight forward spell caster that has brought back joy and happiness into my life! Am giving this testimony because am so happy, I want to thank Dr. Osasu for the great thing He has done in my life , He brought happiness back to my life, I never believed in spell casters until my life fell apart when my lover of 6 years decided to call it quit almost when we wanted to get married. I was so emotional breakdown to the extent i could not do anything reasonable again, after 2months in pain before an old friend of mine introduced me to a spell caster on line called Dr Osasu, this was after I have been scammed by various fake spell casters. I was introduced me to Dr Osasu a true Spell Caster. In less than 24 hours i saw wonders, my lover came back to me and my life got back just like a completed puzzle, and after 1month later we got married and it was just like a dream to me because i thought i had lost him forever. Thank you Dr. Osasu for helping me but most of all, Your Honesty and Fast Accurate Results. email: Drosasu25@gmail.com WhatsApp Number: +2347064365391

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  62. When I found DR. Ayoola I was in desperate need of bringing my boyfriend back. He left me for a reason that I cant understand...It happened so fast and I had no say in the situation at all. He just dumped me after 2years with no explanation. I contact DR.Ayoola  and He told me  what i need to do before he can help me and i did what he told me to, after i provided what he wanted, he cast a love spell to help us get back together. Shortly after he did his spell, my boyfriend started texting me again and felt horrible for what he just put me through. He said that I was the most important person in his life and he knows that now. We moved in together and he was more open to me than before and he started spending more time with me than before. Ever since DR.Ayoola helped me, my partner is very stable, faithful and closer to me than before. I highly recommends DR. Ayoola to anyone in need of help. You can email him on drayoolasolutionhome@gmail.com or add him on whatsapp via: +31684065675

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  63. When I found DR. Ayoola I was in desperate need of bringing my boyfriend back. He left me for a reason that I cant understand...It happened so fast and I had no say in the situation at all. He just dumped me after 2years with no explanation. I contact DR.Ayoola  and He told me  what i need to do before he can help me and i did what he told me to, after i provided what he wanted, he cast a love spell to help us get back together. Shortly after he did his spell, my boyfriend started texting me again and felt horrible for what he just put me through. He said that I was the most important person in his life and he knows that now. We moved in together and he was more open to me than before and he started spending more time with me than before. Ever since DR.Ayoola helped me, my partner is very stable, faithful and closer to me than before. I highly recommends DR. Ayoola to anyone in need of help. You can email him on drayoolasolutionhome@gmail.com or add him on whatsapp via: +31684065675

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  64. Strong And Powerful Love Spell To Win Your Ex Back.. I have decided that i am going to spend the whole day on the internet just to make sure that a lot of people are able to read this my testimony about Dr.happy who is a powerful spell caster from Africa, After been abandon by my lover i was so lonely that very day that i decided to go through the net for some relationships tips, I never knew that this was the road map that will secure the return of my lover. After reading a lot of tips on how to restore my relationship in a more better way i discovered that Dr.happy has a lot of recommendation than other spell casters, So with this i had my mind made up that Dr.happy was the right person for the job, And i contacted Dr.happy through his details which i saw on the internet and i was so happy that i chose to work with Dr.happy because his work was 100% perfect and the spell brought my lover back to me with fast relief you can also contact him for help now email.. happylovespell2@gmail.com
    Website...happylovespell2.webnode.com/
    Whatsapp/cal +2348133873774

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  65. I was hurt and heart broken when a very big problem occurred in my marriage seven months ago, between me and my husband . so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce. he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore. So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too. So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the Email address of the spell caster whom he visited. princegoodlucksolutionhelper@gmail.com. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day. What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me, and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past 7 months, gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back. So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there if you have any problem contact PRINCEGOODLUCK, i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you.. Email him at: princegoodlucksolutionhelper@gmail.com

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  66. My name is Jessica Sonia, and I base in U.S.A… My life is back!!! After 1 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids .I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Ayoola, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Jennifer, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Ayoola E-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him VIA Email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr Ayoola, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man… If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you.Try anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here is his Email drayoolasolutionhome@gmail.com call him on whatsapp +31684065675 

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  67. My name is Jessica Sonia, and I base in U.S.A… My life is back!!! After 1 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids .I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Ayoola, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Jennifer, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Ayoola E-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him VIA Email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr Ayoola, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man… If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you.Try anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here is his Email drayoolasolutionhome@gmail.com call him on whatsapp +31684065675 

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  68. Get your ex lover back" dr unity is indeed a real and honest love spell caster'he brought my husband back. I'm Tracy Mattingly from united state, I'm so excited my husband is back after he left me for another woman. My husband was having an affair with a co-worker and i love my husband so much but he was cheating on me with his co-worker and this girl i think use witchcraft or black magic on my husband to make him hate me and this was so critical and uncalled-for, I cry all day and night for God to send me a helper to bring back my husband! I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex-boyfriend back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it, then he did a love spell for me. 11hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me so much, Oh My God! i was so happy, and today i am happy with my man again and we are joyfully living together and i thank the powerful spell caster Dr.Unity, he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the here. if you are here and your Lover is turning you down, or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact Dr.Unity for help now..Here’s his contact Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com or Call/Whats-app: +2348055361568 ,website:https://drunity.simplesite.com

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  69. Get your ex lover back" dr unity is indeed a real and honest love spell caster'he brought my husband back. I'm Tracy Mattingly from united state, I'm so excited my husband is back after he left me for another woman. My husband was having an affair with a co-worker and i love my husband so much but he was cheating on me with his co-worker and this girl i think use witchcraft or black magic on my husband to make him hate me and this was so critical and uncalled-for, I cry all day and night for God to send me a helper to bring back my husband! I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex-boyfriend back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it, then he did a love spell for me. 11hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me so much, Oh My God! i was so happy, and today i am happy with my man again and we are joyfully living together and i thank the powerful spell caster Dr.Unity, he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the here. if you are here and your Lover is turning you down, or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact Dr.Unity for help now..Here’s his contact Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com or Call/Whats-app: +2348055361568 ,website:https://drunity.simplesite.com

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  70. This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name
    is DAVID AINA and I am based in NEW YORK , USA. My life is back!!!
    After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me with our three children. I
    felt like my life was about to end,and was falling apart. Thanks to a
    spell caster called papa Justus who i met online. On one faithful day,
    as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell
    caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies
    about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he
    brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some
    testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was
    one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called Grace,she
    testified about how papa Justus brought back her Ex lover in less than
    72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa Justus e-mail
    address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try.

    I contacted him via email and explained my problems to him. In just 3
    days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even
    happier than before. papa Justus is really a talented and gifted man and
    i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man…If you have
    a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to
    solve that problem for you. Try the great papa Justus today, he might be
    the answer to your problems. Here’s his contact:
    drabeljustustemple@gmail.com
    www.dejustushealinghome.com
    Thank you great Justus. Contact him for the following:

    (1)If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3)You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4)You want women/men to run after you.
    (5)If you want a child.
    (6)[You want to be rich.
    (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
    (8)If you need financial assistance.
    (9)Herbal care
    10)Help bringing people out of prison
    (11)Marriage Spells
    (12)Miracle Spells
    (13)Beauty Spells
    (14)PROPHECY CHARM
    (15)Attraction Spells
    (16)Evil Eye Spells
    (17)Kissing Spell
    (18)Remove Sickness Spells
    (19)ELECTION WINNING SPELLS
    (20)SUCCESS IN EXAMS SPELLS
    (21) Charm to get who to love you.
    (22)Business spell.
    (23) Find your long lost family.

    Email him at: drabeljustustemple@gmail.com
    Whats-app him at: +2347033354868
    Website: http://www.dejustushealinghome.com

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  71. I’m so excited because my broken marriage has been restored & my husband is back after he left me and our 2 kids for another woman. After 8 years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that DR.Osasu can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,All thanks to DR.Osasu . he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that DR.Osasu real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at:Account:
    drosasu25@gmail.com , you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2347064365391,THANKS TO DR. Osasu

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  72. Urgent effective love Spell caster to help you bring back ex lover & save you marriage fast contact:prophetoyinbojesus@gmail.com is certainly the best spell caster online and his result is 100% guarantee!. My Name Glenda his form Tx,USA. After 12years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. I felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr oyinbo can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before, All thanks to Dr oyinbo. he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that Dr.oyinbo real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Call/WhatsApp:+2348074066640 ,Email him at: prophetoyinbojesus@gmail.com

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  73. my partner and I have been trying for a baby for over two years now, We were going to a fertility clinic for about 5 months before somebody at baby center told us to contact this spell caster who is so powerful, We contacted him at this email; babaka.wolf@gmail.com or Facebook at priest.babaka , for him to help us, then we told him our problem, he told us that we will conceive once we follow his instructions ,but after two years of trying we were at a point where we were willing to try anything. And I'm glad we came to Priest Babaka, Because his pregnancy spell cast and herbal remedy help us, and I honestly believe him, and his gods really helped us as well, I am thankful for all he has done. contact him via email: babaka.wolf@gmail.com or Facebook at priest.babaka if you are trying to have a baby or want your lover back. he has powers to do it, he has done mine

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  74. Am writing this article to appreciate the good work of dr ojoka that helped me recently to bring back my wife that left me for another man for no reason for the past 3 years. After seeing a post of a woman on the internet testifying of how she was helped by dr ojoka. I also decided to contact him for help because all i wanted was for me to get my wife, happiness and to make sure that my child grows up with his mother. Am happy today that he helped me and i can proudly say that my wife is now with me again and she is now in love with me like never before. Are you in need of any help in your relationship like getting back your man, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, winning of lotteries, herbal cure for sickness or job promotion E.T.C. Viewers reading my post that needs the help of dr ojoka should contact him now on his Email: drojokaspelltemple@gmail. com You can also Call/Whats App:+2348144172934

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  75. I am writing this comment with tears of joy. My marriage fell apart after 6 months because my mother In-law asked my husband to divorce me and marriage the woman she betroth to him as his wife. All this drama started happening in our marriage and my husband left me and our one month baby just so he could do as his mom wants him to.I was in tears and shattered for 6 months because I could not imagine my whole life crumbling in front of me. I could not continue with work and baby responsibilities so I quit working. Things became more difficult until my best friend advised me to meet a love doctor that fixed her marriage with a RETURN LOVER SPELL that works as fast as 12 hours after casting the spell. I concord and decided to contact this spell doctor and guess what. My husband came to my mom house with his family in less than 12 hours after casting the spell. Even his mom came back asking me for forgiveness and also to reconcile with my husband who left me. They have been coming for the past 3 days and now everyone is asking me to take him back. I am so grateful for what this love spell doctor has done for me. I am thinking of accepting his apologize and move on as family just as my mom advised.Anyone who wants their lover back should write to love doctor on Love Spell doctor on lovespelldoctor0@gmail. com God bless you as you find your happiness through this testimony.

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  76. Strong And Powerful Love Spell To Win Your Ex Back.. I have decided that i am going to spend the whole day on the internet just to make sure that a lot of people are able to read this my testimony about Dr.happy who is a powerful spell caster from Africa, After been abandon by my lover i was so lonely that very day that i decided to go through the net for some relationships tips, I never knew that this was the road map that will secure the return of my lover. After reading a lot of tips on how to restore my relationship in a more better way i discovered that Dr.happy has a lot of recommendation than other spell casters, So with this i had my mind made up that Dr.happy was the right person for the job, And i contacted Dr.happy through his details which i saw on the internet and i was so happy that i chose to work with Dr.happy because his work was 100% perfect and the spell brought my lover back to me with fast relief you can also contact him for help now email.. happylovespell2@gmail.com
    Website...happylovespell2.webnode.com/
    Whatsapp/cal +2348133873774

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  77. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I had been rejected by my husband after five(5) years of marriage just because another woman had cast a spell on him and he left me with 2 kids to suffer. One day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how he help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a chance he told me that my husband is under spell, he said that he will help me and after 7 days that i will have my husband back. i believed he and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster has the power to bring lovers back now my husband is back with after 7 days . he also gave me a financial magic ring to boost my business and removed bad luck. i am now happy with my husband. Thanks you Dr. love please contact him at (lovespelldoctor0@gmail. com)

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  78. Thank you sir for your genuine spells. This is really incredible, and I have never experienced anything like this in my life. Before i met you Sir, i have tried every possible means that i could to get my wife back, but i actually came to realize that nothing was working out for me, and that my wife had developed lot of hatred for me.. I thought there was no hope to reunite with my ex wife and kids. But when i read good reviews about your work sir, i decided to give it a try and i did everything that you instructed me and i Trusted in you and followed your instructions just as you have guaranteed me in 48 hours, and that was exactly when my wife called me.. We are more contented now than ever. Everything looks perfect and so natural! Thank you so much for your authentic and indisputable spells. Thanks Sir for your help. So I promise to tell the world about you great If you need help in your marriage of broken relationship,please contact Dr Osasu right now for urgent help WhatsApp +2347064365391 or Email drosasu25@gmail.com I want every one who is facing any problem should also give a testimony soon. Just like me today

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  79. Thank you sir for your genuine spells. This is really incredible, and I have never experienced anything like this in my life. Before i met you Sir, i have tried every possible means that i could to get my wife back, but i actually came to realize that nothing was working out for me, and that my wife had developed lot of hatred for me.. I thought there was no hope to reunite with my ex wife and kids. But when i read good reviews about your work sir, i decided to give it a try and i did everything that you instructed me and i Trusted in you and followed your instructions just as you have guaranteed me in 48 hours, and that was exactly when my wife called me.. We are more contented now than ever. Everything looks perfect and so natural! Thank you so much for your authentic and indisputable spells. Thanks Sir for your help. So I promise to tell the world about you great If you need help in your marriage of broken relationship,please contact Dr Osasu right now for urgent help WhatsApp +2347064365391 or Email drosasu25@gmail.com I want every one who is facing any problem should also give a testimony soon. Just like me today

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    I want to let the world know about Dr Love0 the Great spell caster that brought back my husband to me when i thought all hope was lost. Dr Love0 used his powerful spell to put a smile on my face by bringing back my man with his spell, at first i thought i was dreaming when my husband came back to me on his knees begging me to forgive him and accept him back and ever since then he loves me more than i ever expected so i made a vow to my self that i will let the World know about Dr Love0 because he is a God on earth. Do you have problems in your relationship ? have your partner broke up with you and you still love and want him back ? Do you have problem with your finance ? or do you need help of any kind then contact Dr Love0 today for i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you just as he helped me. Dr Love0 email:(doctor0lovespell@gmail. com) or visit his website: https://doctor0lovespell.wixsite.com/mysite-2 or contact his FB page: https://www.facebook.com/Lovespellthatworkfastusa also check his blogs: https://doctorlovespell0.blogspot.com/

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  83. This testimony is worth sharing to the world. I am here to tell the world of the good works of  Dr BALBOSA. My name is Olivia Bolton am from the UK.. My man left me and my kids for another older woman. It was not so easy for me.. I love my husband so much and I did not lose hope and I kept praying and God finally answered my prayers...i searched online for a spell caster to help me unite me and my lover back forever and i saw so many testimonies of  how DR BALBOSA has helped so many people online and i decided to give him a trial … I contacted him and explained to him. He told me not to worry that he will bring back my man within 24 hours. He consulted his powers and assured me not to worry . He did his work and cast the spell and to my greatest surprise, my husband came back the same day begging and crying  just as  Dr BALBOSA said. He begged me for forgiveness and he promised never to leave me for any reason. We are happy and we live together as one. Contact Dr BALBOSA now on: balbosasolutionhome@gmail.com and you can also contact him on WHATSAPP +2347048047728... don't lose hope have a lovely day 

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  84. Omg I Finally Got Helped  !! I'm so excited right now, I just have to share my testimony on this Forum.. The feeling of being loved takes away so much burden from our shoulders. I had all this but I made a big mistake when I cheated on my wife with another woman  and my wife left me for over 4 months after she found out..  I was lonely, sad and devastated. Luckily I was directed to a very powerful spell caster Dr Emu who helped me cast a spell of reconciliation on our Relationship and he brought back my wife and now she loves me far more than ever.. I'm so happy with life now. Thank you so much Dr Emu, kindly Contact  Dr Emu Today and get any kind of help you want.. Via Email emutemple@gmail.com or Call/WhatsApp +2347012841542

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  85. I was married for 16 years to a loving mother and wife. We had 2 children together who are now 11 & 13. I reconnected with an old girlfriend from college on Facebook and we began an affair and I left my wife. The woman I had an affair with is a wonderful woman and I love her too and our kids had begun accepting the situation and my wife has kind of moved on, but not in love with the man she is seeing. I thought I fell out of love with my wife and I felt terrible about what I did to her - she is a good woman and I don't know what came over me. I decided to try and get her back and I was recommended to Lord Zakuza for help to get reunited with my wife and within 48 hours after I made contact with Lord Zakuza my wife decided to work things out with me and now we are back together with our children living as one happy family. I really don't know the words to use in appreciation of what Lord Zakuza did for me but I will say thank you sir for reuniting I and my family back. For those in trying times with their marriages or relationship can WhatsApp Lord Zakuza for help with this number +1 740-573-9483 or you can send him an email to Lordzakuza7@gmail.com

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    From the bottom of my heart, I can never thank you enough DR.BALBOSA for the wonderful work you did for me and my kids to bring back my husband. Am stella Andre from England. I was having serious relationship problems with my husband and he was no longer committed to me and our kids, when i asked him what the problem was he told me he has fell out of love for me and wanted a divorce and  i was so heart broken, i cried all day and night, it had resulted in him moving out to his friend’s apartment. Everything got worse because he started going to bars and strip clubs frequently with his friend, getting drunk and passing out. He always threatens me on the phone whenever I call him because of all the bad advice that his friend has given him. I really love him and we had been married for 8 years which gave us a beautiful daughter and a son. I had also lost a lot of money on therapists until I was introduced to DR. BALBOSA by a friend whom he helped to marry her childhood boyfriend, this gave me total confidence and strength to get him back. I did all that DR. BALBOSA asked me to do it and I also followed all instructions given to me by DR. BALBOSA to my greatest surprise after 48 hours my husband called me and rushed back home with a brown new car for me and our kids... things just changed between us emotionally, I was the happiest woman on earth that day. my husband now has a good job and stopped drinking and he stopped keeping irrelevant friends. It’s a miracle I never believed was possible because I had lost all hope until I found DR. BALBOSA...contact him today and get your love back i can assure you .... contact him on his Email on: balbosasolutionhome@gmail.com and CALL/ WHATSAPP: +2347048047728...BYE... 






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    From the bottom of my heart, I can never thank you enough DR.BALBOSA for the wonderful work you did for me and my kids to bring back my husband. Am stella Andre from England. I was having serious relationship problems with my husband and he was no longer committed to me and our kids, when i asked him what the problem was he told me he has fell out of love for me and wanted a divorce and  i was so heart broken, i cried all day and night, it had resulted in him moving out to his friend’s apartment. Everything got worse because he started going to bars and strip clubs frequently with his friend, getting drunk and passing out. He always threatens me on the phone whenever I call him because of all the bad advice that his friend has given him. I really love him and we had been married for 8 years which gave us a beautiful daughter and a son. I had also lost a lot of money on therapists until I was introduced to DR. BALBOSA by a friend whom he helped to marry her childhood boyfriend, this gave me total confidence and strength to get him back. I did all that DR. BALBOSA asked me to do it and I also followed all instructions given to me by DR. BALBOSA to my greatest surprise after 48 hours my husband called me and rushed back home with a brown new car for me and our kids... things just changed between us emotionally, I was the happiest woman on earth that day. my husband now has a good job and stopped drinking and he stopped keeping irrelevant friends. It’s a miracle I never believed was possible because I had lost all hope until I found DR. BALBOSA...contact him today and get your love back i can assure you .... contact him on his Email on: balbosasolutionhome@gmail.com and CALL/ WHATSAPP: +2347048047728...BYE... 

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    My ex is back with full love! I am very happy!!!   I am Meyers Brown by name and i am from USA, I have been rejected by my husband after three (3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. I cannot let go because I truly love my husband and the kids are always asking about their father, one day when I was reading through the web online, I saw a post on how a spell caster called DR. BALBOSA have helped a woman to get back her husband after 8 years of marriage and i decided to contact him and i explained everything to him, he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. I believed him and trusted in him. He gave me instructions and I followed all instructions given to me by DR BALBOSA, today i am glad to let you all know that My Husband Is Back With Full Love. unknown to me and kids my husband bought a new house for us in California.. we are living happily now in California..i made a promise to DR. BALBOSA that i am going to tell this WONDERFUL TESTIMONY to the world... DR BALBOSA has the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks to DR.BALBOSA... His Email: balbosasolutionhome@gmail.com.com And his Phone number on WhatsApp or call him: +2347048047728...GRATEFUL HEART

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  88. I'm so happy today because of what Dr Fuma did for me my ex-boyfriend dumped me two years ago after I accused him of seeing someone else, i was mislead by my friend who told me he was seeing someone else so i confronted him and he left me without a word, i miss him so much because i really love him all my effort to get him back was fruitless until a friend of mine introduced me to this great spell caster called Dr fuma who had helped her in the past, I contacted and narrated all i have been through, he assured me that he's going to come back to me but i thought it'was not going to happen, after i did all he instructed me, to my greatest surprise my bf who had refused taking my calls came to me begging for forgiveness, he even promised not to ever leave me again, all thanks to Dr Fuma for restoring happiness in my life. as for many of you in the same situation, contact him today and be happy. below is his personal email drfumaspellhome711@gmail.com

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  89. I'm so happy today because of what Dr Fuma did for me my ex-boyfriend dumped me two years ago after I accused him of seeing someone else, i was mislead by my friend who told me he was seeing someone else so i confronted him and he left me without a word, i miss him so much because i really love him all my effort to get him back was fruitless until a friend of mine introduced me to this great spell caster called Dr fuma who had helped her in the past, I contacted and narrated all i have been through, he assured me that he's going to come back to me but i thought it'was not going to happen, after i did all he instructed me, to my greatest surprise my bf who had refused taking my calls came to me begging for forgiveness, he even promised not to ever leave me again, all thanks to Dr Fuma for restoring happiness in my life. as for many of you in the same situation, contact him today and be happy. below is his personal email drfumaspellhome711@gmail.com i wish you best of luck.

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  90. I'm so happy today because of what Dr Fuma did for me my ex-boyfriend dumped me two years ago after I accused him of seeing someone else, i was mislead by my friend who told me he was seeing someone else so i confronted him and he left me without a word, i miss him so much because i really love him all my effort to get him back was fruitless until a friend of mine introduced me to this great spell caster called Dr fuma who had helped her in the past, I contacted and narrated all i have been through, he assured me that he's going to come back to me but i thought it'was not going to happen, after i did all he instructed me, to my greatest surprise my bf who had refused taking my calls came to me begging for forgiveness, he even promised not to ever leave me again, all thanks to Dr Fuma for restoring happiness in my life. as for many of you in the same situation, contact him today and be happy. below is his personal email drfumaspellhome711@gmail.com

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  91. i couldn't believe that i would ever be re-unite with my ex-lover, i was so traumatize staying all alone with no body to stay by me and to be with me, but i was so lucky one certain day to meet this powerful spell caster Dr Prince,after telling him about my situation he did everything humanly possible to see that my lover come back to me,indeed after casting the spell my ex-lover came back to me less than 48 hours,my ex-lover came back begging me that he will never leave me again, thanks very much Dr Prince for restoring my ex-lover back to me,his emai: princemagicspell@yahoo.com or his WhatsApp +19492293867

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  92. i couldn't believe that i would ever be re-unite with my ex-lover, i was so traumatize staying all alone with no body to stay by me and to be with me, but i was so lucky one certain day to meet this powerful spell caster Dr Prince,after telling him about my situation he did everything humanly possible to see that my lover come back to me,indeed after casting the spell my ex-lover came back to me less than 48 hours,my ex-lover came back begging me that he will never leave me again, thanks very much Dr Prince for restoring my ex-lover back to me,his emai: princemagicspell@yahoo.com or his WhatsApp +19492293867

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  93. i couldn't believe that i would ever be re-unite with my ex-lover, i was so traumatize staying all alone with no body to stay by me and to be with me, but i was so lucky one certain day to meet this powerful spell caster Dr Prince,after telling him about my situation he did everything humanly possible to see that my lover come back to me,indeed after casting the spell my ex-lover came back to me less than 48 hours,my ex-lover came back begging me that he will never leave me again, thanks very much Dr Prince for restoring my ex-lover back to me,his emai: princemagicspell@yahoo.com or his WhatsApp +19492293867

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  94. This testimony is worth sharing to the world. I am here to tell the world of the good works of  Dr BALBOSA. My name is Olivia Bolton am from the UK.. My man left me and my kids for another older woman. It was not so easy for me.. I love my husband so much and I did not lose hope and I kept praying and God finally answered my prayers...i searched online for a spell caster to help me unite me and my lover back forever and i saw so many testimonies of  how DR BALBOSA has helped so many people online and i decided to give him a trial … I contacted him and explained to him. He told me not to worry that he will bring back my man within 24 hours. He consulted his powers and assured me not to worry . He did his work and cast the spell and to my greatest surprise, my husband came back the same day begging and crying  just as  Dr BALBOSA said. He begged me for forgiveness and he promised never to leave me for any reason. We are happy and we live together as one. Contact Dr BALBOSA now on: balbosasolutionhome@gmail.com and you can also contact him on WHATSAPP +2347048047728... don't lose hope have a lovely day 

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  95. This testimony is worth sharing to the world. I am here to tell the world of the good works of  Dr BALBOSA. My name is Olivia Bolton am from the UK.. My man left me and my kids for another older woman. It was not so easy for me.. I love my husband so much and I did not lose hope and I kept praying and God finally answered my prayers...i searched online for a spell caster to help me unite me and my lover back forever and i saw so many testimonies of  how DR BALBOSA has helped so many people online and i decided to give him a trial … I contacted him and explained to him. He told me not to worry that he will bring back my man within 24 hours. He consulted his powers and assured me not to worry . He did his work and cast the spell and to my greatest surprise, my husband came back the same day begging and crying  just as  Dr BALBOSA said. He begged me for forgiveness and he promised never to leave me for any reason. We are happy and we live together as one. Contact Dr BALBOSA now on: balbosasolutionhome@gmail.com and you can also contact him on WHATSAPP +2347048047728... don't lose hope have a lovely day 

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  96. I'm so happy today because of what Dr Fuma did for me my ex-boyfriend dumped me two years ago after I accused him of seeing someone else, i was mislead by my friend who told me he was seeing someone else so i confronted him and he left me without a word, i miss him so much because i really love him all my effort to get him back was fruitless until a friend of mine introduced me to this great spell caster called Dr fuma who had helped her in the past, I contacted and narrated all i have been through, he assured me that he's going to come back to me but i thought it'was not going to happen, after i did all he instructed me, to my greatest surprise my bf who had refused taking my calls came to me begging for forgiveness, he even promised not to ever leave me again, all thanks to Dr Fuma for restoring happiness in my life. as for many of you in the same situation, contact him today and be happy. below is his personal email drfumaspellhome711@gmail.com and you can also add him on WHATSAPP/CALL ON +2348139052904.

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  97. ​​This is a testimony that i will tell to every one to hear. i have been married four 4 years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2 years until i meant a post where this man DR. Osasu: have helped someone and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my love Husband home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48 hours as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self His email: (drosasu25@gmail.com) you can also contact him or whatspp him on this +2347064365391 thank so much​​

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  101. I lost my marriage after 2 years and it was a horrible experience for me. My wife left me and my son and everything happened beyond my control and I never knew few people around me engineered my wife and turned her against me just because I choose to build my family and focus more on it. I had to seek help because I know I did not do anything to have my marriage crashed. Dr Mkuru helped me and a lot was revealed to me on what transpired. He cast a love reunion spell that bonded my wife and I back together and the whole evil my family did against me was revealed. Am thankful that my home is back more happier than ever and all the appreciation goes to Dr Mkuru as he indeed fixed my problems just after 48 hours. text him on WhatsApp him on +2349075998982 you can also visit his Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/Dr.Mkuru

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